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<strong>MEHFIL</strong><br />

The magazine for today’s Indo-Canadian<br />

May/June 2009 $4.95<br />

INSIDE<br />

NannyGate<br />

Puts Spotlight on<br />

Care-Givers<br />

Program<br />

Perspectives<br />

South Asian Canadians<br />

React to a Poll<br />

That Reveals Most<br />

Canadians Are Wary<br />

of Islam and Sikhism<br />

Nanomania<br />

Indians Clamour<br />

for Tata’s New Car<br />

Profile:<br />

GAry Dhaliwal<br />

Built for Business<br />

mind power<br />

Sunita Bapooji<br />

Spreads the Message<br />

of Sookshma Yoga<br />

Devina<br />

Zalesky<br />

driven to<br />

make it big<br />

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MehfilMay/June 2009<br />

COVER STORY<br />

D e pa r t m e n t s<br />

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4 Mehfil May/June 2009<br />

46<br />

Devina Zalesky:<br />

Survivor............. 46<br />

When Devina Zalesky arrived in<br />

Canada with her family in 1972,<br />

they had little more than the clothes<br />

on their backs. Devina, who barely<br />

spoke English at the time, routinely<br />

found herself on the receiving end<br />

of racist taunts. Today, Devina<br />

Zalesky is president of an insurance<br />

company with a staff of more than<br />

200. The secrets to her success — determination, resilience and a<br />

survivor’s spirit — are the same qualities helping her to conquer her<br />

latest life-altering challenge.<br />

Features<br />

Perspectives: Attitudes to Religion................. 12<br />

A recent Angus Reid poll on attitudes towards religion conducted for<br />

Maclean’s magazine found that only one in three Canadians see Islam<br />

and Sikhism in a favourable light. Mehfil asks members of the South<br />

Asian community about their reaction to the results of the poll.<br />

Nannygate Puts Spotlight on Care-Givers Program..... 32<br />

Allegations of exploitation levelled at MP Ruby Dhalla by two<br />

former careworkers have prompted unprecedented scrutiny of<br />

the federal Live-In Caregiver program. While Dhalla denies any<br />

wrongdoing, caregivers’ advocates say the real issue is how the<br />

program leaves foreign nannies vulnerable to mistreatment.<br />

Indians Clamouring for New ‘People’s Car’........... 34<br />

Priced at $2,000 US for a base model, the new Nano car has been<br />

dubbed the “People’s Car” by its manufacturer because it’s putting<br />

car ownership within reach of families who’ve never been able to<br />

afford one. Indeed, it could increase India’s car-owning population<br />

by 65 per cent.<br />

Gary Dhaliwal: Built for Business .. 36<br />

A mere four years after starting a oneman<br />

excavation business, Gary Dhaliwal<br />

is running a company with almost 60<br />

employees and major contracts. Oh, and<br />

did we mention he’s only 22?<br />

Sookshma Yoga................ 42<br />

Sunita Bapooji is convinced that she knows the way to a peaceful<br />

mind and a healthy body. For 25 years, Bapooji, founder of the<br />

Sunita Centre for Overall Wellbeing, has been teaching that<br />

Sookshma Yoga is the key to cleansing the body of the negative<br />

effects of stress — and her many followers agree.<br />

36<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

Publishers’ Note.............7<br />

Opinion. .................10<br />

Clippings. ................14<br />

Stellar Student............ 15<br />

Power Player. ............ 19<br />

Unsung Hero.............. 20<br />

Life Lessons ...............22<br />

Cruiser Clippings. ......... 24<br />

Spotlight ................ 26<br />

Fashion. ................ 54<br />

Weddings................ 60<br />

Beauty .................. 64<br />

Auto Reviews ..............70<br />

Local Artist................77<br />

Reflections............... 78<br />

Columns<br />

8<br />

Guest Column<br />

by Beau Simpson<br />

28<br />

The Inspired Sufi<br />

by Azim Jamal<br />

30<br />

Politics<br />

by Andy Radia<br />

66<br />

Cuisine<br />

by Gurj Dhaliwal<br />

68<br />

Health & Fitness<br />

by Shefali Raja<br />

75<br />

Horoscope<br />

by Georgia Nicols<br />

76<br />

Movie Reviews<br />

by Ron Ahluwalia


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May/June 2009 VOLUME 13 ISSUE 2<br />

Editor<br />

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Contributing Writers<br />

Robin Roberts, Azim Jamal,<br />

Beau Simpson, Shefali Raja, Ron Ahluwalia,<br />

Michelle Hopkins, Gurj Dhaliwal<br />

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It’s NOT what you<br />

EARN<br />

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Many of our readers will be able to relate<br />

to the story of Devina Zalesky, the subject<br />

of this issue’s cover story. Like so many other<br />

South Asian immigrants in the early 1970s,<br />

she and her family arrived in Canada with<br />

little more than a dream for a better life.<br />

Ever since she got her first job at the age of<br />

13, Zalesky has been impressing her bosses<br />

wtih her drive, her people skills and her<br />

willingness to go the extra mile. Today, as<br />

president of AllWest Insurance, a major<br />

player in B.C.’s auto-insurance business,<br />

she’s in the driver’s seat of a business that<br />

employs more than 200 people. Now, Zalesky<br />

is drawing on the indomitable will that<br />

propelled her up the business ladder to face<br />

an unexpected, life-altering challenge.<br />

Zalesky is one of several intriguing people<br />

featured in this issue. We also profile Gary<br />

Dhaliwal, a 22-year-old who’s making his<br />

mark in B.C.’s construction industry; Sunita<br />

Bapooji, who teaches a form of yoga she says<br />

anyone can practise; Saroj Sood, whose “all<br />

for one, one for all” philosophy has created<br />

an invaluable support system for her fellow<br />

residents at the PICS Assisted Living home.<br />

Also in this issue, we cover a diverse<br />

range of topics. Mehfil speaks to several<br />

British Columbians of South Asian descent<br />

about their reaction to a recent poll that<br />

indicates only one-third of Canadians have a<br />

favourable impression of Muslims and Sikhs.<br />

In the wake of headline-making allegations<br />

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Ruby Dhalla by former caregivers, we take<br />

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In Caregivers program that leave foreign<br />

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India comes a story about the mounting<br />

waiting lists for India’s new Nano<br />

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Kwantlen Polytechnic<br />

University officially<br />

opened a $31.6 million<br />

expansion Thursday.<br />

The provincial government<br />

put up $21.2<br />

million while the university<br />

contributed the<br />

balance.<br />

The money was spent<br />

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and will help Kwantlen<br />

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gas by 25 per cent and<br />

electricity by 45 per cent<br />

by 2010.<br />

Bridgeview is getting<br />

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system.<br />

Transportation<br />

Minister Kevin Falcon<br />

announced Monday the<br />

federal and provincial<br />

governments are jointly<br />

providing $5.7 million in<br />

funding to upgrade the<br />

Bridgeview sewer.<br />

The total cost of the<br />

project is $8.6 million.<br />

The province, the federal<br />

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the cost of the project<br />

in a three-way split,<br />

each providing $2.83<br />

million.<br />

The project will be<br />

tendered within the<br />

coming months and<br />

construction is expected<br />

to begin this summer.<br />

A Surrey man has<br />

been sentenced to three<br />

years in jail and fined<br />

$236,598 for GST fraud.<br />

Yakim Surani was<br />

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after abandoning an<br />

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for tax evasion in 2008.<br />

He’d been convicted<br />

of Goods and Services<br />

Tax fraud last April<br />

and was sentenced in<br />

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court in September but<br />

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was released pending<br />

the result.<br />

– Compiled by staff<br />

Guest Column<br />

By Beau Simpson<br />

Vaisakhi:<br />

Seeing Beyond the Parade<br />

Photos<br />

THE FACES OF VAISAKHI<br />

aturday’s chilly, wet weather A parade of tens of thousands threaded<br />

couldn’t dampen Surrey’s their way through the streets of Newton<br />

enthusiasm for its annual behind a float bearing the Sikh holy book.<br />

S Vaisakhi celebration.<br />

Along the way, dozens of booths were set<br />

A huge crowd turned out for a day of free up to offer free delicacies to celebrants.<br />

food, music, dance and prayer to celebrate The route was also dotted with stages<br />

the creation of the Sikh identity and the offering music and dance.<br />

arrival of spring.<br />

One of those attending Vaisakhi was<br />

For a slide show of Saturday’s parade: www.thenownewspaper.com<br />

A man uses his shoe to strike<br />

a photo of Jagdish Tytler, a<br />

Delhi politician accused of<br />

inciting anti-Sikh rioting in<br />

1984. It’s estimated as many<br />

as 3,000 Sikhs died during<br />

the riots triggered by the murder<br />

of Prime Minister Indira<br />

Gandhi by two of her Sikh<br />

bodyguards. Gandhi’s assassination<br />

was in retaliation for<br />

Operation Bluestar, an army<br />

assault on Sikh separatists<br />

barricaded in the Golden<br />

Temple of Amritsar. Tytler<br />

denied inciting the riots and<br />

has never been charged.<br />

Above: A woman walks next to<br />

a float during the parade that<br />

attracted tens of thousands.<br />

by:<br />

BRIAN HOWELL<br />

Surrey Mayor Dianne Watts.<br />

“There was a significant number of people<br />

there even though it rained,” Watts said.<br />

“People were cooking for days and there<br />

was plenty of free food. It’s a great celebration,<br />

especially since the kids and families<br />

all come out.”<br />

– Ted Co ley<br />

DID YOU KNOW?<br />

The colour orange is<br />

seen everywhere among<br />

Vaisakhi celebrants; on<br />

turbans, head scarves<br />

and other clothing.<br />

Orange represents wisdom,<br />

sacrifice and also<br />

honours the Kahlsa<br />

Panth, Sikhs who demonstrated<br />

their willingness<br />

to die for their beliefs<br />

when called to do so by<br />

Guru Gobind Singh in<br />

1699.<br />

Smiles were the order of<br />

the day as the route was<br />

dotted with stages offering<br />

music and dance.<br />

A young girl spins a chakra while walking on the parade<br />

route on Saturday in Surrey.<br />

BRIEFLY<br />

NEWS<br />

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Sewer upgrade<br />

Jail for tax evasion<br />

“I see great coverage of<br />

Vaisakhi, the parade, the<br />

people, interviews, etc,”<br />

one Now reader complained.<br />

“But I believe it<br />

was Easter – that’s what<br />

my family celebrated.<br />

Your newspaper seemed<br />

to disregard this fact.<br />

Nothing of Christian<br />

church-goers. It seems to<br />

us that they were the ones<br />

who built this country.”<br />

Beau Simpson is managing editor of<br />

the Now newspaper in Surrey, B.C.<br />

8 Mehfil May/June 2009<br />

Vaisakhi. To some, it means religion.<br />

To others, it means celebration,<br />

culture and community.<br />

To the Now newspaper, it means all of<br />

the above – and that’s the philosophy we<br />

took when we sat down to formulate our<br />

coverage for Vaisakhi this year.<br />

We wanted to go big – we decided that<br />

early on. After all, what other event in our<br />

community attracts about 100,000 to our<br />

city streets in a vibrant display of colour,<br />

food, music and multiculturalism?<br />

What’s more, we asked ourselves, what<br />

other event in our community is so misunderstood?<br />

Indeed, Vaisakhi is a journalist’s dream.<br />

There’s history. There’s culture. There’s<br />

faith. There’s pageantry. There’s even a<br />

little conflict.<br />

This year, I wanted to know more, not<br />

just as a journalist but as a relative newcomer<br />

to Surrey.<br />

What does it all mean? Where did it<br />

originate? What are the foods associated<br />

with Vaisakhi? What about the fashion of<br />

Vaisakhi? What do the clothes and colours<br />

signify?<br />

These questions helped us form our<br />

strategy for covering this hugely important<br />

event in the pages of the Now newspaper.<br />

In the end, our coverage of Vaisakhi is<br />

something we were all proud of.<br />

We saw it as a chance to better understand<br />

our South Asian neighbours and<br />

their culture, thus bringing our community<br />

closer together.<br />

“In Surrey, the celebration means more<br />

than just the Sikh identity,” wrote Now<br />

contributor Amy Reid in one of the many<br />

educational articles that appeared in the<br />

Now leading up to Vaisakhi. “It showcases<br />

the culture of the South Asian community,<br />

and people from all over B.C. come<br />

to join in the celebration. It is an opportunity<br />

for the city to show off its diversity<br />

and multiculturalism.”<br />

But unfortunately, some readers of the<br />

Now didn’t see it that way.<br />

“I see great coverage of Vaisakhi, the<br />

parade, the people, interviews, etc,” one<br />

reader complained. “But I believe it was<br />

Easter – that’s what my family celebrated.<br />

Your newspaper seemed to disregard this<br />

fact. Nothing of Christian church-goers.<br />

It seems to us that they were the ones who<br />

built this country.”<br />

Another reader said our coverage wasn’t<br />

fair.<br />

“I see “Happy Vaisakhi” in your paper<br />

and no “Happy Easter” — are we not<br />

in Canada?” another wrote in the Now’s<br />

Roses and Rotten Tomatoes feature. “The<br />

people who are from here celebrate Easter.<br />

I have no problem with other religions<br />

and their celebrations, but let’s be fair to<br />

all. We all have a right to believe.”<br />

One letter-writer went even further:<br />

“What an affront to us few remaining<br />

Christians.”<br />

Was I surprised by such a response?<br />

Maybe a little. Was I disappointed?<br />

Whole-heartedly.<br />

After all, this isn’t a contest between<br />

siblings vying for the attention of their<br />

parents. This is a celebration of a vibrant<br />

culture that is thriving in our community.<br />

The Now’s coverage of Vaisakhi wasn’t a<br />

matter of ‘unfairly’ choosing one religion<br />

over another – it was an opportunity to<br />

learn about our neighbours.<br />

Easter, Good Friday, Christmas, can<br />

one really make the argument that they<br />

are ignored? I think not.<br />

Instead of worrying about newspaper<br />

coverage, maybe the different faiths in our<br />

community would be better served learning<br />

about each other. That, in a nutshell,<br />

was what the Now tried to facilitate with<br />

our coverage of Vaisakhi.<br />

We wanted our non-South Asian readers<br />

to better understand what Vaisakhi was<br />

all about, that it’s much more than just a<br />

parade that forces you to drive a different<br />

route to the mall.<br />

A stronger community requires us to<br />

understand each other better. Maybe then,<br />

different faiths will stop keeping score<br />

about media coverage and start celebrating<br />

our community’s diversity.<br />

Now that’s something we would love<br />

to cover. p


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Kids today have so much more “stuff” because too many parents<br />

feel that they need to over-compensate for what they feel they<br />

missed out on when they were kids.<br />

The dictionary defines Generation Y<br />

as anyone born between 1980 and<br />

2004. They are also:<br />

• Tech-savvy<br />

• Multi taskers<br />

• Competitive<br />

• Highly intelligent<br />

• The future<br />

• Environmentally conscious<br />

However, there is something that could<br />

completely derail the potential of Generation<br />

Y and that “something” is Generation<br />

X parents who fail to parent effectively.<br />

I truly feel that a large majority of Gen<br />

X parents need to refocus because they<br />

have really lost the plot when it comes to<br />

being “good” parents.<br />

Too many kids seem to be calling all<br />

the shots and the parents seem to have<br />

decided that as long as their little Manjit<br />

or Kiran are happy, then they have done<br />

their job of being a good parent.<br />

I disagree! I think some slack Gen X<br />

parents, and you know who you are, need<br />

a huge wake-up call!<br />

Back in the (G)olden Days<br />

Looking back to when I was a child,<br />

it seems that parenting was much easier.<br />

Parents chose what we did, when we did<br />

it and when what we were doing came to<br />

an end. TV was controlled by the adults<br />

and that was not up for negotiation. Kids<br />

went to bed when their parents said it was<br />

time to sleep.<br />

Home, Suite, Home!<br />

Most Generation X parents grew up in<br />

the 1970s when the average family was a<br />

mom, a dad and their kids all living under<br />

one roof. If you were lucky, your parents<br />

earned enough to buy all or some of life’s<br />

10 Mehfil May/June 2009<br />

Parenthood<br />

A survivor’s manual for Gen X parents of Gen Y kids<br />

luxuries, like a TV or a radio.<br />

Back in the day, most kids that I knew<br />

did not have a bedroom that resembled<br />

a hotel suite fitted out with all the latest<br />

gadgets. My bedroom, which I shared<br />

with my two younger brothers, had the<br />

following: three beds, a door, carpet and a<br />

wardrobe that held our few clothes.<br />

Compare that with what the average<br />

Generation Y child has in his/her bedroom:<br />

a colour TV connected to cable or<br />

satellite, a games system, PC or lap-top,<br />

and a wardrobe full of the latest fashions,<br />

the value of which probably equals that of<br />

my first car.<br />

Kids today have so much more “stuff”<br />

because too many parents feel that they<br />

need to over-compensate for what they<br />

feel they missed out on when they were<br />

kids.<br />

Gen Y kids have become negotiators<br />

for everything. They have no issue with<br />

using your childhood for their own gains.<br />

“Dad, wouldn’t you have wanted this<br />

when you were younger?” is a question I<br />

hear way too often.<br />

However, in the pursuit of all this<br />

“stuff” many parents have forgotten that<br />

children need to feel loved and crave<br />

boundaries to become valued members of<br />

the family and society.<br />

What happened?<br />

Most Gen X parents were kids in the<br />

1970s, a time when money was fairly<br />

scarce and parents spent any free time<br />

with their kids when they weren’t working<br />

two or three jobs.<br />

I grew up in England, and every day after<br />

school we would play soccer or cricket<br />

until it got too dark to see the ball. After<br />

school, aged ten, with my eight- and sixyear-old<br />

brothers in tow, we walked the<br />

mile from our school to our house by ourselves.<br />

We then used our key to open our<br />

front door that we used to let ourselves in.<br />

Once we were in the house by ourselves<br />

we made our own snacks. Then we locked<br />

the door and walked about half a mile to a<br />

park that involved us crossing not one but<br />

two highways by ourselves.<br />

Now parents drive their kids to school<br />

for a journey that is, on average, only 800<br />

yards!<br />

The future?<br />

Is life any more dangerous now than<br />

it was back in the day? Probably yes. We<br />

have more gangs and guns but that’s the<br />

whole problem.<br />

If we don’t give our kids a place to belong<br />

they’ll find that place in a gang, and<br />

that sort of life never ends well. Basically<br />

parents need to stop trying to be their<br />

kids’ best friend.<br />

Become your kids’ role models, or else<br />

a gangster, rap star or reality TV star will<br />

take that spot.<br />

I just want to finish with a few words<br />

of advice to parents:<br />

• Take control of the relationship.<br />

Gen Y kids will achieve success<br />

but they need a helping hand.<br />

• It’s OK to say no to your kids<br />

sometimes; they’ll get over it.<br />

• Stop letting the kids decide the<br />

direction YOU take because<br />

YOU are the adult and need to<br />

act like one! p<br />

Divinder Singh Purewal, 40, is a human<br />

resources professional in Surrey, B.C.<br />

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P erspectives<br />

Poll Shows Canadians Lack Tolerance<br />

In April, Maclean’s magazine reported surprising results<br />

based on a poll on religion in Canada conducted for<br />

Maclean’s by Angus Reid Strategies. The poll, which surveyed<br />

1,002 randomly selected Canadians, showed that fewer than<br />

1 in 3 Canadians view Islam and Sikhism in a favourable light.<br />

Overall, reported Maclean’s, Islam scored a favourability rating<br />

of just 28 per cent and Sikhism just 30 per cent. Angus<br />

Reid chief researcher officer Andrew Grenveille told Maclean’s<br />

he was astonished and saddened by the lack of tolerance. “I<br />

don’t think the findings reflect well on Canada at all,” he said.<br />

Mehfil Magazine asked several Canadians of South Asian<br />

origin for their reaction to the results of the poll.<br />

Kush Uppal, 24,<br />

Student, Delta, B.C.<br />

I’m not surprised that the percentage of<br />

people think the way they do because of<br />

events that have come to light over recent<br />

years. Let’s face it: The community has made<br />

the news for unfortunate reasons, whether it’s<br />

gang involvement or the slew of murders of<br />

women (in domestic violence cases) in the<br />

community. These are all things that build<br />

thoughts and misconceptions about the<br />

faith associated with those involved with the<br />

crimes, be it Sikhism, Islam, Judaism, or any<br />

other faith.<br />

This was a surprise, however, because on<br />

a global scale, Canada is one of the most<br />

multicultural nations in the world, and one<br />

would think that within this mosaic comes<br />

acceptance and education about the different<br />

cultures/religions that are a part of<br />

Canadians’ lives.<br />

But in a fast-paced world, people tend to<br />

pick up bits and pieces of what they hear and<br />

see – a lot of which is sensationalized by the<br />

media. I think that if everyone who formed<br />

an uneducated opinion on the topic took the<br />

time to stop and do a little research on the<br />

facts, they may think differently. We are bombarded<br />

with media images every day, and the<br />

reality is that the media will show whatever<br />

they think will bring in the most number<br />

of viewers — and viewers love to see the<br />

extreme. If this is all that is being fed to those<br />

who don’t know better about the religion/culture,<br />

this is all they will ever see and believe.<br />

I don’t know that anything can actually<br />

be done to eliminate this negative stigma<br />

attached to the community/religion. However,<br />

community leaders can continue to do what<br />

they have been doing over the years and<br />

continue to provide excellent role models for<br />

youth of all ethnicities and faiths.<br />

Ashwani Narwani, 22,<br />

Student, Richmond, B.C.<br />

The results of the poll concern me.<br />

As a person belonging to a minority<br />

group, it is important for me to know<br />

how Canadians as a whole view other<br />

religions. The poll results are alarming<br />

but at the same time prove the need for<br />

politicians and the government to take<br />

concrete steps to help immigrants settle<br />

in their new home. The fact that different<br />

religions and communities are looked<br />

at in a less than favourable manner is a<br />

cause of concern as it affects the ability of<br />

Canadians to live peacefully with mutual<br />

respect across all communities.<br />

I am not terribly surprised by the numbers.<br />

The Maclean’s article says that<br />

those who don’t have interaction with<br />

or friends from a certain community or<br />

religion have a less favourable view of<br />

it. This is an important aspect to consider.<br />

What did surprise me were the<br />

significantly higher ratios (of intolerance)<br />

observed in Quebec.<br />

Intolerance or prejudice towards certain<br />

religions or communities seems to be<br />

entrenched among people across the<br />

board in Canada. This exists due to a<br />

variety of reasons. Some that come to<br />

mind are the reporting of conflicts from<br />

across the world; negative news reporting<br />

by the media; insufficient knowledge or<br />

education about different religions.<br />

Education and interaction are key to<br />

12 Mehfil May/June 2009


“I’m not surprised at all by the poll’s results. Canada presents itself to the rest<br />

of the world as a beautiful gift with beautiful wrapping. People flock here. When<br />

they pull away the gift-wrapping they find what Canada truly is: a friendlier yet<br />

still closed-minded version of the United States, with much better PR.”<br />

– Mani Amar<br />

improving the community’s image.<br />

Basic education about the major religions<br />

across Canada is especially important to<br />

remove or reduce the stereotyping of different<br />

religions or communities.<br />

In addition, programs promoting interaction<br />

among people from different religions<br />

and backgrounds should be actively<br />

promoted. Hopefully, we can have many<br />

“highways to heaven” in the future such<br />

as the one on No. 5 Road in Richmond<br />

that features two mosques, a Sikh gurdwara,<br />

a handful of churches, a Buddhist<br />

temple and a Hindu mandir.<br />

Ishwereena Sharma, 25<br />

Student, Surrey, B.C .<br />

The results of the poll make me feel<br />

unsafe. I would have never guessed that<br />

I would come across such statistics, as<br />

I always sensed Canada’s spirit towards<br />

diversity was evident in cultural celebrations<br />

such as the Chinese New Year and<br />

Vaisakhi<br />

Since 9/11 there have been cases of<br />

racial profiling within the Muslim community.<br />

A feeling of overall suspicion<br />

towards Islam has resulted in the religion<br />

being seen as perpetrating violence and<br />

hatred towards other communities. This<br />

is certainly counter intuitive as religion<br />

teaches respect for all mankind as well as<br />

love and humility.<br />

I believe scholars of each religion need to<br />

present religious texts in a more positive<br />

light.<br />

Polly Sidher, 33,<br />

Social worker/counsellor, Surrey, B.C.<br />

My sense of pride as a Canadian remains the<br />

same as before viewing these poll results.<br />

However, as a woman who belongs to an<br />

ethnic minority group, I was very surprised<br />

to see these results. I have always perceived<br />

Canada is one of the most culturally<br />

embracing countries and believed that fellow<br />

Canadians not only tolerant but encouraging<br />

of diversity of race, gender, sexual orientation,<br />

faiths and religious beliefs.<br />

It seems we still need to continue working on<br />

challenging media images, building friendships<br />

outside of our own comfort levels and<br />

learning new and important things from other<br />

cultures, races and religions.<br />

The average Canadian citizen needs to view<br />

these poll results as a motivator to continue<br />

our path towards remaining a country that is<br />

liberal, tolerant and accepting of differences.<br />

That all begins with even a small action in<br />

my opinion: smiling at our neighbour or saying<br />

hello to someone “different” from us and<br />

even striking up a conversation with someone<br />

whom we normally wouldn’t. Baby steps with<br />

what we have control over is my motto.<br />

In this economic recession, when tensions<br />

of all kinds tend to be heightened, we do<br />

need to make even more of a conscious<br />

effort as Canadians — an effort to not let our<br />

economic hardships influence our cultivated<br />

friendships, relationships, viewpoints, beliefs,<br />

values and, most importantly, the way we<br />

interact with each other.<br />

Mani Amar, 27,<br />

Artist and activist, Delta, B.C.<br />

I’m not surprised at all by the poll’s results.<br />

Canada presents itself to the rest of the<br />

world as a beautiful gift with beautiful<br />

wrapping. People flock here. When they<br />

pull away the gift-wrapping they find what<br />

Canada truly is: a friendlier yet still closedminded<br />

version of the United States, with<br />

much better PR.<br />

I believe that most of the population polled<br />

was from urban communities. These<br />

numbers would be even less favourable<br />

to minority religions if rural communities<br />

were polled.<br />

Anything new, anything different, anything<br />

that challenges the norm always finds<br />

resistance. It is not so much human nature<br />

(fear of the unknown), but it is more so<br />

how we continue to create a society of less<br />

acceptance than a society that embraces<br />

diversity.<br />

I think it’s a mistake to focus on how we<br />

can improve a community’s or religion’s<br />

image. We need to focus on the root<br />

issue: How society as a whole should be<br />

more embracing. The issues we face in<br />

minority communities can be traced to<br />

larger issues in society. Humanity exists<br />

synergistically. p<br />

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www.mehfilmagazine.com or email us<br />

at opinions@mehfilmagazine.com<br />

Mehfil May/June 2009 13


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automotive journalist to the new series Shifting Gears Automotive TV.<br />

Shifting Gears Automotive TV Series<br />

Veeno Dewan loves<br />

being in the driver’s<br />

seat — both literally and<br />

figuratively. He gets to do<br />

both as host and executive<br />

producer of the new<br />

program Shifting Gears<br />

Automotive TV.<br />

Dewan’s goal is to<br />

deliver reviews, consumer<br />

advice and news in a<br />

way that entertains and<br />

enlightens car buffs. Each<br />

week, the show goes on<br />

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and Vivek Sharma.<br />

Dewan brings a wealth<br />

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Gears. An accredited<br />

member of AJAC<br />

(Automotive Journalists<br />

of Canada) and a longtime<br />

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Dewan spent 10 years<br />

working at BBC television<br />

in Britain before<br />

immigrating Canada.<br />

“One of the reasons<br />

I joined the BBC was<br />

to get on the show Top<br />

Gear, which 30 years later<br />

is still the best known<br />

automotive show in the<br />

world, with six million<br />

viewers a week,” says<br />

Dewan.<br />

After moving to<br />

Canada, Dewan spent<br />

four years producing<br />

and directing Global<br />

Television’s Drivers<br />

Seat, and also worked<br />

on CTV’s Canadian<br />

Rally series. In February<br />

2009, Veeno approached<br />

Shaw Multicultural TV<br />

in Vancouver with the<br />

idea for Shifting Gears,<br />

which he describes as “an<br />

edgier and more progressive<br />

show targeted to the<br />

younger crowd.”<br />

The network showed<br />

interest and asked him<br />

to produce a 30-minute<br />

pilot with a multicultural<br />

slant. The show is<br />

now half-way through a<br />

12-episode run.<br />

“We have big plans for<br />

the show with hopes of<br />

getting exposure on the<br />

other cable networks,”<br />

says Dewan. “At some<br />

point, a full English version<br />

of the show will be<br />

in the works.”<br />

Shifting Gears airs<br />

Thursday and Sunday<br />

nights on Shaw Cable<br />

Channel 119. p<br />

Favourite Rides<br />

Poonam<br />

Sandhu, co-host<br />

“First and<br />

foremost the<br />

Audi A5. It’s fast,<br />

sleek, luxurious<br />

and most importantly<br />

sexy. The<br />

car is rare at the<br />

moment, which<br />

makes it even more attractive.<br />

“Second up, the Ford Fusion Hybrid<br />

— quite a smooth drive and the interactive<br />

eco-display keeps you from driving<br />

aggressively in the city. It’s a dependable<br />

ride.”<br />

Vivek Sharma,<br />

co-host<br />

Vivek says<br />

his fave car is the<br />

2009 Mazda RX8<br />

R3 Mazdaspeed.<br />

He recently tested<br />

it and found it<br />

an exciting, fast<br />

and very smoothhandling<br />

car with a unique look.<br />

Veeno Dewan,<br />

host and executive<br />

producer<br />

“My favourite<br />

car to drive is the<br />

Porsche 911 Carrera<br />

turbo. It is basically a<br />

true racing car that you can drive on the<br />

road every day without it ever breaking<br />

down. The engineering and performance<br />

are simply amazing and it looks fabulous.<br />

The handling and steering are racecar<br />

sharp and the 911 is a complete thrill<br />

to drive hard and fast.”<br />

Is this a good time to buy a<br />

new car?<br />

Dewan: While all the uncertainty<br />

and market chaos tends to have<br />

a negative effect on consumer<br />

confidence, it also has some real<br />

benefits for consumers. With dealers<br />

hungry for sales, vehicle prices<br />

are at their lowest point in a generation<br />

in comparable dollars, and you<br />

can score some great deals. Low<br />

interest rates and huge financing<br />

incentives will continue to be the<br />

norm; it's a great time to be a buyer.<br />

And that will continue to be the case<br />

through 2009.<br />

If you can pay cash or qualify<br />

for credit, which may be the deciding<br />

factor, the chances of cutting<br />

a favourable deal are better than<br />

good. It will continue to be a<br />

buyer's market — perhaps the best<br />

time ever to buy a new car or truck<br />

— if you can pay cash or qualify<br />

for credit.<br />

What are manufacturers<br />

doing different?<br />

Dewan: Most major automakers<br />

are working on some form of<br />

production vehicle with hybrid or<br />

electric drive that will come to market<br />

within the next two to five years.<br />

The public is very fickle so auto<br />

manufacturers now have a hard time<br />

giving people what they want. For<br />

example, when gas prices go high<br />

people want hybrid and smaller<br />

cars; when gas prices go low people<br />

want bigger vehicles. When good<br />

times come, people want sports<br />

cars or bigger luxury vehicles.<br />

Generally, the automakers are<br />

responding to what consumers<br />

want in terms of fuel economy,<br />

and warrantees are now very good<br />

and have been for some time. But<br />

will the demand for large SUVs,<br />

pick-ups and sports cars ever go<br />

away? I think not. The automakers<br />

also understand the growing<br />

awareness of being “green”<br />

amongst consumers, and so all of<br />

the volume car makers and even the<br />

luxury and sports car makers such<br />

as Porsche, Mercedes, BMW and<br />

Audi are looking at more environmentally<br />

conscious, fuel- efficient<br />

vehicles. You will still get people<br />

with disposable incomes who want<br />

a Hummer, Porsche, Lamborghini,<br />

Ferrari or a Rolls Royce. And the<br />

bottom line is almost everyone who<br />

lives in the suburbs outside a major<br />

city or town with no good, fast, efficient<br />

reliable public transport links<br />

needs a vehicle, so the car is not<br />

going away. p<br />

14 Mehfil May/June 2009


S tellar Student<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

Zorast Gustavsp<br />

Age: 18 Hometown: Richmond, B.C.<br />

Academic awards: Principals’ honour roll<br />

from Grades 8 through 12.<br />

Academic goals: After high school I will be<br />

taking computer sciences at Dickinson State<br />

University in North Dakota. I was fortunate<br />

enough to receive a golf scholarship, so along<br />

with doing my bachelors in computer science,<br />

I will also be golfing competitively in the<br />

Dakota Athletic Conference. The computer science<br />

program at DSU is also one of their most<br />

recognized programs, which is why I decided<br />

to further pursue my post-secondary education<br />

there.<br />

Advice for students: Get involved in extracurricular<br />

activities. This will introduce you<br />

to new people, show you your strengths and<br />

weaknesses, and make high school a whole lot<br />

more enjoyable.<br />

Success strategies you swear by:<br />

Something that I use quite frequently when it<br />

comes to studying for a test or making a presentation<br />

is visualization. A while back I had<br />

found this to work in other facets of my life<br />

and decided to try and apply it to school. For<br />

example, before a big test I will sit down for<br />

five minutes before I begin to study and imagine<br />

myself finding the answers to all the questions<br />

that are going to be on the test. I then<br />

visualize my teacher handing the test back to<br />

me a week later with the mark on the top that I<br />

desire. After genuinely believing what my mind<br />

has fabricated I will open up my text book and<br />

begin studying. This strategy gets you into the<br />

right mindset before you study, which is usually<br />

half the battle.<br />

How do you de-stress when school<br />

gets intense? Though this may sound quite<br />

unorthodox, when I feel like the weight of the<br />

world is on my shoulders I usually sit down<br />

and watch CNN or another news channel. I do<br />

this to get some perspective on what is going<br />

on in the world, but more so to make myself<br />

feel juvenile for overreacting to school troubles<br />

when there are people all over the world fighting<br />

through real adversity. It is usually at this<br />

point when I realize my problems are quite<br />

small in comparison to the big picture, and I<br />

generally start feeling better about my situation.<br />

What do you do in your spare time? I<br />

enjoy music, movies and hanging out with my<br />

friends. I am also a bit of a geek and am interested<br />

in anything that encases circuitry. My<br />

room is the technological hub in my house,<br />

and if there is ever a problem with electronic<br />

equipment, I make it my job to try and fix it.<br />

Golf has also been an important part of my life,<br />

since it has consumed most of my summers<br />

since I was the age of eight.<br />

A quote that inspires you:<br />

“Do not let the past define who you are, but let<br />

it shape who you will become.”<br />

— Anonymous<br />

Mehfil May/June 2009 15


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No Hollywood Ending Yet for<br />

Slumdog’s Child Star<br />

The Oscar-winning box-office hit Slumdog Millionaire has made more<br />

than $326 million to date, but the film’s success has had little effect<br />

on the daily lives of two of its youngest stars. In fact one of them was<br />

left homeless in mid-May after the shanty in which he was living was torn<br />

down by municipal workers in Mumbai.<br />

Ten-year-old Azharuddin Mohammed, who played the character Salim<br />

as a child in Slumdog, told the Associated Press that he and his family<br />

had no idea that their home in the Garib Nagar slum was slated for demolition.<br />

He told AP that he was awakened by a police officer who ordered<br />

them out of their home without giving them a chance to gather their few<br />

belongings.<br />

“A police officer took a bamboo stick to hit me, and I was frightened,”<br />

Azharuddin told AP. “We are homeless, we have nowhere to go.”<br />

Local government officials — who said the boy’s home and 30 other<br />

shacks were demolished as part of a pre-monsoon sweep because they<br />

were built illegally on public land — said he and his family would be provided<br />

with government housing, but had no details as to when or where<br />

that would happen.<br />

Municipal official Uma Shankar Mistry told the BBC that the shacks had<br />

been built in an area that was meant to be a public garden.<br />

Slumdog Millionaire’s producers have established a trust fund to<br />

provide housing and education for Azharuddin and his impoverished<br />

nine-year-old co-star Rubina Ali, who also lives in a slum. But thus far<br />

the children’s lives seem to have changed little from before they were<br />

plucked from Mumbai’s slums to appear in the film that has made a fortune.<br />

Director Danny Boyle and producer Christian Colson have said the<br />

trust fund is significant but won’t disclose the amount (even the children’s<br />

parents don’t know how much it is) because they fear the youngsters<br />

would be vulnerable to exploitation.<br />

Azharuddin’s parents have said that Boyle and Colson have promised<br />

$30,000 for a permanent home for the family, but the boy’s mother says<br />

that’s not enough for a decent apartment in expensive Mumbai. A trustee<br />

of the trust fund established by Boyle and Colson wrote to them requesting<br />

more money for a new home and were awaiting a response.<br />

Bullet-Proof Turban<br />

Sikh police officers want special bulletproof<br />

turbans to be developed so they<br />

can serve in firearms units, according to<br />

the new British Police Sikh Association.<br />

Inspector Gian Singh Chahal, vicechairman<br />

of the British Police Sikh Association,<br />

said the government needs to make<br />

a provision for Sikhs so they can safely<br />

serve on firearms units. Existing police<br />

safety helmets do not fit over turbans.<br />

“There has been some research done<br />

into producing a ballistic material [for<br />

turbans]. We would like to follow any<br />

opportunity where we could manufacture<br />

a ballistic product, made out of a synthetic<br />

fibre, that would ensure a certain degree<br />

of protection, so Sikh police officers could<br />

take part in these roles.”<br />

The association was launched last<br />

month to represent an estimated 2,000<br />

Sikhs who serve in the police.<br />

Indo-Canadian Farmworkers<br />

in the Spotlight<br />

new photo exhibition is putting a<br />

A spotlight on the lives and struggles of<br />

B.C. farmworkers. The exhibition — called<br />

“A Time to Change” and made possible by<br />

the efforts of the Abbotsford community,<br />

Vancouver-based media artist and photographer<br />

Craig Berggold<br />

and the Reach Gallery<br />

Museum — features<br />

30 photographs of<br />

farmworkers in the<br />

early 1980s. According<br />

to a pamphlet<br />

produced by the Reach<br />

Gallery: “For these<br />

workers in this landscape,<br />

today little has<br />

changed.” It also notes<br />

that in 2007 three women were killed in the<br />

crash of an over-crowded van transporting<br />

them to work, and in 2008, five farmworkers<br />

died after exposure to lethal gases at a<br />

mushroom farm in Langley.<br />

A 2008 study on farmworkers by the<br />

Canadian Center for Policy Alternatives<br />

found that B.C. farmworkers are a particularly<br />

vulnerable group of low-wage workers.<br />

It recommended that the B.C. government:<br />

establish piece rates that are equivalent<br />

to the minimum wage; raise the minimum<br />

wage and index it to inflation; strengthen<br />

inspections at farm sites; review the farm<br />

labour contracting system.<br />

16 Mehfil May/June 2009


Clippings<br />

Shiamak Davar has designed a new collection of<br />

dance wear, called Have Feet Will Dance, for Reebok.<br />

Shiamak Teams Up With Reebok<br />

In a campaign designed to make fitness<br />

fun, Reebok India has teamed<br />

up with top Bollywood choreographer<br />

Shiamak Davar.<br />

Reebok officially launched the<br />

SHIAMAK brand of dance and fitness<br />

attire in a star-studded fashion show attended<br />

by celebrities including Amitabh<br />

Bachchan, Abhishek Bachchan and<br />

Diya Mirza. The event featured Slumdog<br />

Millionaire’s Tanay Chheda, stars<br />

from Shiamak’s Victory Arts Foundation<br />

and performances by the Shiamak<br />

Davar Dance Company.<br />

The brand’s namesake was front-row<br />

centre at the event, sporting a white<br />

Reebok tracksuit.<br />

Beginning with comfortable and<br />

trendy dance wear designed by Davar,<br />

Reebok’s SHIAMAK brand will also<br />

include a variety of dance workout videos<br />

created by the choreographer. The<br />

first in the series will be the Bollywood<br />

Dance Workout.<br />

“Contemporary India is a young<br />

nation with fitness being a necessary<br />

stimulant for a young mind and body,”<br />

said Subhinder Singh Prem, managing<br />

director of Reebok India. “Bollywood is<br />

an incredible part of the Indian heritage<br />

and is like an elixir for the youth. We’ve<br />

partnered with the one man in the<br />

industry who can merge these two key<br />

ingredients for the youth seamlessly:<br />

Shiamak Davar. We’re happy to announce<br />

that he has successfully fused<br />

the intricacies of Bollywood moves and<br />

music with fitness techniques to arrive<br />

at a fun-filled Bollywood workout. The<br />

result of our association is an Indian<br />

fun-packed workout and the dazzling<br />

apparel collection inspired from the<br />

moods of dance.”<br />

Described as hip and funky, the<br />

Have Feet, Will Dance collection<br />

includes dance pants, tanks, sweats,<br />

shrugs, warmers and accessories like<br />

dance caps.<br />

“My collaboration with Reebok in<br />

crafting an exclusive dance wear collection<br />

has been a long time coming,”<br />

said Davar. “It has always been my<br />

dream to create high-quality dance<br />

wear that celebrates the spirit of Have<br />

Feet, Will Dance, meaning that the<br />

magical joy of dance is for all to enjoy.<br />

At Shiamak Davar’s Institute for the<br />

Performing Arts (SDIPA), we believe<br />

in making people stronger and fitter<br />

through a fun yet structured program.<br />

We find that Reebok shares this vision,<br />

and I feel they are the best to partner<br />

with on our Bollywood Workout as well.<br />

To all the budding fitness enthusiasts<br />

out there, I say, be yourself, no matter<br />

what they say. Stay fit. Dance!”<br />

Lawyer Out of Order<br />

The Canadian government<br />

has stripped Indo-Canadian<br />

lawyer T. Sher Singh of the<br />

Order of Canada, the country’s<br />

highest civilian award. The<br />

Order of Canada was given to<br />

Singh in 2001 for his work as<br />

an advocate for “the importance<br />

of positive race relations and<br />

interactive dialogue among<br />

members of different religions.”<br />

Singh, who came to Toronto<br />

from Patna in the early 1970s,<br />

was the first turbaned Sikh to be<br />

given Canada’s highest civilian<br />

award.<br />

In 2007<br />

Singh was<br />

found guilty of<br />

professional<br />

misconduct by<br />

the watchdog<br />

Law Society of<br />

Upper Canada T. Sher Singh<br />

and banned from<br />

practising law. Before the ban,<br />

he was also suspended from the<br />

legal profession in November<br />

2005.<br />

The Law Society said Singh<br />

deposited cheques from a client<br />

into an account that was not his<br />

trust account and accepted trust<br />

funds from clients, but “failed<br />

to render an account, failed to<br />

perform substantial work on the<br />

file, and failed to return any of<br />

the retainer fee in one case.”<br />

A government statement<br />

revoking the Order said: “The<br />

termination of Mr. Singh’s<br />

appointment to the Order of<br />

Canada is pursuant to the<br />

Law Society of Upper Canada<br />

finding Mr. Singh guilty of<br />

professional misconduct and<br />

revoking his licence to practise<br />

law.” The statement added that<br />

the termination was effective<br />

from December 10, 2008.<br />

The statement said revocation<br />

can be considered when<br />

the conduct of the recipient<br />

“constitutes a significant departure<br />

from generally recognized<br />

standards of public behaviour<br />

which is seen to undermine the<br />

credibility, integrity or relevance<br />

of the Order, or detracts from<br />

the original grounds upon<br />

which the appointment was<br />

based.”<br />

18 Mehfil May/June 2009


Power Player<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

Anmol Mattu<br />

Age: 13<br />

Hometown: Richmond, B.C.<br />

Sport: Basketball<br />

Team: Steveston-London Senior<br />

Secondary School basketball team.<br />

When did you begin playing? In<br />

Grade 3.<br />

Most memorable moments:<br />

Leading my under-14 B.C. Summer<br />

Games team to second place against<br />

a strong Fraser Valley team in the<br />

semi- finals. Playing for the under-<br />

13 boys and girls teams in the 2008<br />

provincials and leading both teams<br />

to second place and averaging 26<br />

points per game. Playing for the<br />

senior girls basketball team and<br />

averaging 24 points per game.<br />

Highlights: Winning RCMP Team<br />

Izzat 3-3 basketball tournament.<br />

Leading AAA senior girls basketball<br />

team to second place in Richmond.<br />

Winning 3-D elite boys team in the<br />

under-13 provincial with less than<br />

24 seconds on the shot clock and a<br />

tied game. I stole the ball from a boy<br />

doing a lay-up and I hustled down<br />

the court and I got the basket in. The<br />

final score was 55 - 50; we won.<br />

What do you love most about<br />

your sport? I love the pace of the<br />

game and the competition.<br />

How do you balance your<br />

school life with sports? I am<br />

very busy. I have no time to sit. I<br />

enjoy working hard and completing<br />

my homework on time. I am happy I<br />

made the principal’s honour roll.<br />

Who do you consider your<br />

support team outside of the<br />

game? My family, Drive Basketball<br />

Academy’s coaching staff, Pasha<br />

Bains, my personal trainer Isaac<br />

Payne.<br />

Advice for aspiring athletes:<br />

Believe in yourself and never give<br />

up. Be proud of who you are and<br />

don’t get mixed up with the wrong<br />

crowd. Avoid pressure and ask for<br />

help when you need it.<br />

Career goals: I would like to play<br />

for Team Canada and play in the<br />

WNBA. Above all I want to graduate<br />

from law school.<br />

Mehfil May/June 2009 19


Unsung Hero<br />

Saroj Sood<br />

One for all<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

By Michelle Hopkins<br />

Saroj Sood has a gift for lifting the<br />

spirits of those who are afraid, lonely<br />

or sad.<br />

Sood, 78, is the unofficial den mother<br />

for the 53 senior residents in the<br />

Progressive Intercultural Community<br />

Services (PICS) Society assisted-living<br />

care facility in Surrey. Whether she’s<br />

planning a birthday party for someone’s<br />

two-year-old granddaughter, hosting a<br />

sing-a-long or organizing weekly socialgroup<br />

meetings, Sood is all about “one for<br />

all; all for one.”<br />

She moved into the PICS care home<br />

two years ago because of heart problems.<br />

“The doctors suggested I needed some<br />

20 Mehfil May/June 2009


assistance, so I came to live here,” she<br />

says.<br />

It turned out be a good move not only<br />

for her, but for her fellow residents.<br />

Inderjeet Hundal, administrator of<br />

the PICS assisted-living home, describes<br />

Sood as “a very unique personality. Saroj<br />

keeps everyone’s spirits up and genuinely<br />

cares for people. She is very compassionate.<br />

We are very fortunate to have her,”<br />

says Hundal. “She’s always cheerful and<br />

if someone is feeling down, she’ll go over<br />

and cheer them up. It is her gift, one<br />

she shares easily with others. People love<br />

being in her presence. She just radiates<br />

pure happiness. She has a star quality<br />

about her.”<br />

If a resident feels homesick and in<br />

need of emotional support, Sood can be<br />

counted on to offer encouragement. “I<br />

tell everyone never to give up hope,” she<br />

says. “When there’s hope, there’s life, but<br />

when the hope dies you are not alive.<br />

“I tell everyone that we are all family.<br />

We must care for each other just like real<br />

families care for each other.”<br />

Although she’s always happy to plan<br />

group picnics and shopping excursions<br />

to the mall, or to accompany a resident<br />

who doesn’t speak English to the bank,<br />

pharmacy or grocery store, Sood derives<br />

the greatest satisfaction from seeing her<br />

fellow residents gain new confidence in<br />

themselves.<br />

She recalls the distress of one 86-yearold<br />

woman who was “very frightened” at<br />

the prospect of living away from home.<br />

Sood immediately befriended her and<br />

soon cajoled her into getting involved<br />

in daily activities at the assisted-living<br />

centre.<br />

“Today, she is a leader,” Sood says happily<br />

of the woman. “She used to be in a<br />

wheelchair and now she uses a walker; her<br />

health, mental and physical, have both<br />

improved. All I did was help her to feel<br />

comfortable. Now she is part of a group<br />

of seniors I got together who support<br />

each other and others.”<br />

Sood attributes her positive outlook<br />

to her strong faith. Deeply spiritual, she<br />

spends every Friday praying in her suite.<br />

“I fast and pray all day,” she says matterof-factly.<br />

“It is my day for God and me.<br />

“I’m so peaceful. I sit and enjoy life as<br />

it comes.”<br />

That joy is apparent from Sood’s<br />

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“When you laugh, the vibrations<br />

that surround you are sent out to the<br />

others around you,” she says. “They pick<br />

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CareerCoach<br />

Life Lessons<br />

You Have 60 Seconds<br />

to Get an Employer’s Attention<br />

With so many resume submissions, the task of going through each<br />

resume one by one can become tedious and mundane. You want<br />

to gain an employer’s attention up front and retain their interest to make<br />

them want to exceed the 60 seconds. So how is this accomplished?<br />

Although resume format is important, it’s the content that makes the<br />

biggest difference.<br />

Having written resumes for job seekers and screened thousands of<br />

resumes for employers, here are some helpful suggestions our team<br />

wants to share with you:<br />

• Describe your skills, experience and knowledge up front.<br />

Ensure that your descriptions are relevant to the job you are<br />

applying for.<br />

• Italicize key words to stand out. The italicized words represent<br />

importance and attract the reader. These words should be relevant<br />

to the job posting.<br />

• Avoid employment gaps. Employment history should flow<br />

from one position to another. If you have gaps (e.g. Maternity<br />

leave, extended vacation etc.) mention it in your resume.<br />

• Explain your short stay. Nothing scares employers away then<br />

showing short stays at various places of employment. If these<br />

are contract or temporary positions, mention this on your<br />

resume.<br />

• Describe key accomplishments for each position listed. Share<br />

how you positively impacted the employer. (e.g. Lead a group<br />

to complete a 2 million dollar system upgrade within a specific<br />

time and within budget). The accomplishments should be<br />

something you completed that received recognition and not<br />

something you achieved as a group member.<br />

• Avoid copy and paste. Whatever you do, do not copy and<br />

paste information from the job posting to your resume. Be<br />

original and show how your skills, knowledge and experience<br />

align with the job posting. Also, avoid repetition from one job<br />

to the next on your resume (e.g. If you have done the same<br />

job over the past three years with three different companies,<br />

do not copy and paste your job description from one to<br />

another).<br />

The biggest question you need to ask yourself before submitting a<br />

resume is “does my resume sell me?” If you have to think before<br />

responding or unsure, then you should seek a professional resume<br />

writer. A good writer will take the time to customize<br />

your resume to fit your needs and better your<br />

chances of retaining an employer’s attention longer<br />

then 60 seconds. p<br />

Moshin Manji, Business partner, HRinmotion,<br />

provides job preparation services from a human<br />

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Technology<br />

and parenting:<br />

Sometimes I wonder if our society is evolving<br />

at the same rate as our technology is. Our kids<br />

know how to use the Internet to access information<br />

and to communicate at a very young age. They<br />

know how to download and upload information<br />

way before we even learn about the names of the<br />

gadgets they’re using to access it.<br />

Their language is evolving as well. Twenty years<br />

from now when they look back at our books, they<br />

might be surprised at how long our sentences<br />

were and the way we spelled words. They may be<br />

amused that we spelled “you” as “you” instead of<br />

“u” and “are” as “are” instead of “r.” Our language<br />

usage may seem as quaint to them as Shakespearean<br />

English does to us.<br />

The question that we need to ask ourselves as<br />

parents is: How do we prepare ourselves as well as<br />

our children for this fast paced evolution?<br />

In my opinion, the most important thing is<br />

that we try to keep up with them as much as possible.<br />

We need to learn about “their” ways of doing<br />

things just as much as they need to learn about<br />

“our” ways. We need to minimize the gap between<br />

our generations and understand the differences,<br />

why these differences exist and why we need to accept<br />

some of them.<br />

We can teach them only what we know ourselves.<br />

If we don’t know about the Internet, how<br />

can we teach our kids about Internet safety? We<br />

need to educate ourselves and each other. A lot of<br />

work is being done by schools, governments, and<br />

public organizations to teach us about these technological<br />

advancements but if we keep looking the<br />

other way we are going to miss out on this. The<br />

schools are doing what they can to teach our kids<br />

about using due diligence when on the Internet<br />

but we need to work with the schools as well. Our<br />

kids need to know about cyber-safety and we need<br />

to know how we can keep our kids safe in cyberspace.<br />

We all know how to supervise our kids at<br />

the park or in the mall but we also need to learn to<br />

supervise them in cyberspace. Our generation has<br />

given them this technology and it’s only fair that<br />

our generation gives them the tools to use it safely<br />

and constructively. p<br />

Meena Makkar, M. Sc., M.Ed., RCC<br />

is a registered clinical counsellor and<br />

is working as a school counsellor in<br />

Surrey. She takes a special interest<br />

in issues faced by parents, especially<br />

Indo-Canadian parents.<br />

Parenting Tips<br />

22 Mehfil May/June 2009


Promotional<br />

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Advertising Feature<br />

Profiles<br />

of Success<br />

Custom Brokers<br />

Ronnie Rai is part of a growing number of Indo-Canadian<br />

women making their mark in the male-dominated import<br />

business.<br />

In her three years at A & A Contract Customs Brokers Ltd.,<br />

Ronnie has proven she has the knowledge and expertise to<br />

make it in the fast-paced and competitive world of customs<br />

brokerage.<br />

A & A has built a solid reputation as one of the leaders<br />

in the customs brokerage, freight forwarding, warehousing,<br />

distribution, vehicle importation, one-time custom<br />

clearance, compliance audits, barcodes, permits and<br />

shipping industry. The wholly Canadian-owned familyrun<br />

company was founded in 1979 by Graham and Candy<br />

Robins, has been in the business for three decades and has<br />

a proven track record of excellence in the field.<br />

Ronnie, who is fluent in English and Punjabi, is a selfdescribed<br />

ambitious and driven individual, says she offers<br />

one-stop service for her clients.<br />

“I provide one-on-one personal service, which means I<br />

assist and follow through in every step of the process, from<br />

warehousing to shipping to border permits to freight and<br />

delivery,” says the 40-year-old. “You have to be ready for<br />

the unexpected and deal with it right away … It’s a very<br />

deadline-driven industry.”<br />

She liaises between all the departments so that her<br />

clients only have to deal with her. Ronnie’s clientele import<br />

products from all over the world – Austria, Thailand, India<br />

and everywhere in between.<br />

When Mehfil spoke to Ronnie, she was tracking live coral<br />

coming from Thailand. Coral must reach Canada within 24<br />

hours or it will die.<br />

It’s up to her to ensure that no problems are encountered<br />

along the way and that the shipment arrives on time and<br />

alive.<br />

“Mistakes can cost my clients money,” she says.<br />

Ronnie was born in Juktpur, Punjab India but<br />

immigrated to British Columbia with her parents and at<br />

the age of five.<br />

Meanwhile, Ronnie is working on her Certified Customs<br />

Specialist program through the Canadian Society of Custom<br />

Brokers. She writes her final exam in September. Her next<br />

step is to earn her Certified Sales Professional designation.<br />

Once completed, she says, it will enable her to network with<br />

an inner circle of like-minded sales professionals.<br />

“I love my job because it’s constantly changing,” Ronnie<br />

says. “One day I’m clearing a horse, the next a car and then<br />

a shipment of food. Dealing with customs regulations can<br />

be a complicated process, and I’m here to help my clients<br />

move their goods as seamlessly as possible.”<br />

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Scene & Society<br />

1<br />

1. Jal Mamta Setia (centre) at<br />

Vancouver Fashion Week, and<br />

(2) with models at her Fashion<br />

Ka Jalwa show at Ginger 62<br />

Lounge.<br />

1<br />

2<br />

CORSA’s 5th Annual Kohinoor Diamond Ball<br />

1. B.C. Premier Gordon Campbell, Simrit Ollek, Sarbjeet<br />

K. Sarai, and Attorney General Wally Oppal.<br />

2. Herb and Neelu Dhaliwal, Moninder<br />

and Arvinder Bubber.<br />

2<br />

1<br />

1<br />

2<br />

2<br />

4<br />

3<br />

3<br />

Save a Life fundraiser<br />

benefiting the Surrey<br />

Memorial Hospital<br />

1. Baljit and Narinder<br />

Sabharwal.<br />

2. Chandra Bodalia<br />

and City of Surrey<br />

Counsellor Tom Gill.<br />

3. Pav and Zia Gill.<br />

South Asian Business<br />

Association of B.C. Launch<br />

(SABA)<br />

1. Jim Kalsi, Parm Dhinjal, Salinder Burmy,<br />

Victor Lall.<br />

2. Gurmant Grewal, Shari Boyal, Maninder<br />

Gill, Jagdeep Gill.<br />

3. M.S. Dhaliwal, Tochi Sandhu, Dilbag<br />

Mann, Kuldeep Gill, Amarjit Samra.<br />

4. Kultar S. Thiara and Shoaib Rauf.<br />

24 Mehfil May/June 2009<br />

Kamal Sharma (right)<br />

with Jagjit Singh at his<br />

Farewell Tour dinner party.


1<br />

2<br />

1<br />

Surrey Food Bank annual<br />

breakfast fundraiser<br />

1. Muhamad Afzal Malik<br />

and Bhim Sen Nair.<br />

2. Jas Janda-Wiseman,<br />

Dave and Ranjjet<br />

Benning, Jas Cheema.<br />

2<br />

3<br />

1<br />

2<br />

4<br />

5<br />

3<br />

6<br />

4<br />

7<br />

4th annual Brian Jessel BMW<br />

Cabriolet Charity Fashion Gala<br />

1. Lucky Janda, Brian Jessel,<br />

Rana Vig, Bob Bhindi.<br />

2. Paul and Ruby Arora.<br />

3. Ravi and Jasbir Bahra.<br />

4. Babita Bhindi, Sanjana Patten,<br />

Bob Bhindi, Suki Patten.<br />

5. Raj and Kamal Binpal<br />

6. Kiran and Lucky Janda.<br />

7. Brian Jessel and Rhoda<br />

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1. Actress Pooja Batra.<br />

2. Alan Rosenberg, President, Screen Actors Guild, and<br />

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4. Suneel Gupta and CNN Chief Medical Correspondent<br />

Sanjay Gupta.<br />

5. Actor Annu Kapoor with director Anand Surapur.<br />

Mehfil May/June 2009 25


Spotlight<br />

Chandra<br />

Bodalia<br />

Image of<br />

giving<br />

By Michelle Hopkins<br />

The sun is shining down on a grinning<br />

little boy licking his ice cream, which is<br />

dripping down his chin. In another photo,<br />

sitar legend Ravi Shankar looks regal as he<br />

stands, arms crossed, in thoughtful contemplation.<br />

In yet another shot, former United States<br />

president Bill Clinton smiles broadly as<br />

he looks right into the lens of Chandra<br />

Bodalia’s camera.<br />

These photographs are among nearly<br />

three million images that Bodalia has captured<br />

over the last three decades.<br />

“I typically take 5,000 pictures a week,”<br />

says the 60-year-old Bodalia.<br />

Whether it’s a little one’s first birthday,<br />

a 50th wedding anniversary, family reunion<br />

or a fundraiser such as the Diwali Festival,<br />

Bodalia can be found lugging his beloved<br />

camera to take snapshots that become lasting<br />

memories.<br />

From photographing B.C.’s Attorney<br />

General Wally Oppal, to television anchor<br />

Pamela Martin, to freeze-framing the sweat<br />

dripping off a kabbaddi player, Bodalia has<br />

proven his talent for capturing the moment<br />

beautifully.<br />

Even more astonishing is that he does this<br />

completely free of charge. In fact, Bodalia<br />

has spent tens of thousands of his own<br />

money to support his volunteerism.<br />

When asked why he does it, Bodalia<br />

shrugs: “All of my life, I want to help my<br />

community in any way I can. Since I love<br />

photography, it makes sense to give back<br />

this way.”<br />

This past April, Bodalia was honoured<br />

with a Seva Award for “his dedication to<br />

championing people through his photography.”<br />

After accepting his plaque at the<br />

Photo by RON SANGHA<br />

26 Mehfil May/June 2009


Vaisakhi Gala, Bodalia found himself<br />

on the other side of the lens, posing with<br />

Premier Gordon Campbell and Surrey<br />

Mayor Dianne Watts.<br />

Another proud moment for him came<br />

in 1996 when he received the Gujarati<br />

Society of B.C. award for inspiring future<br />

generations and for outstanding selfless<br />

contributions and dedication.<br />

After a little prompting, Bodalia admits<br />

he has received more than 20 awards over<br />

the years from the Sunset Indo-Canadian<br />

Seniors Society Vancouver for “valuable<br />

service.”<br />

As he flips through some 70 of his<br />

photographs, he appears to be transported<br />

through time. “I took this photograph<br />

of NDP leader Carole James when she<br />

was campaigning in Surrey and shaking<br />

hands with her constituents,” he says. “I<br />

took this shot of the VPD chief of police,<br />

Jim Chu, when he was giving a press<br />

conference.”<br />

Over the years, Bodalia has been given<br />

unprecedented access to many local and<br />

international dignitaries and celebrities,<br />

as well to many political functions.<br />

“I photographed the opening of the<br />

Richmond Oval and that was exciting,”<br />

he says. “I attend hundreds of political,<br />

religious and festive events every year. My<br />

phone sometimes doesn’t stop ringing.”<br />

His donated photographs can be seen<br />

regularly in local South Asian newspapers.<br />

Bodalia likes to focus on capturing volunteers<br />

“performing good deeds around<br />

the South Asian community. That way,<br />

people can see the many good things our<br />

people are doing to make the community<br />

a better place for everyone.”<br />

His interest in photography took root<br />

soon after he graduated from college in<br />

his native Gujarat. After earning three<br />

diplomas, in commerce, painting and<br />

sculpture, Bodalia landed a job as an<br />

advertising photographer for The Gujarat<br />

Samachar, a local newspaper.<br />

“At that time, I travelled all over India<br />

photographing temples,” he says.<br />

When he was in his late 20s, his future<br />

bride sponsored him to B.C. and Bodalia<br />

immigrated to Canada in 1976.<br />

“When I came to B.C., I began to<br />

volunteer for the Vishva Hindu Parishad<br />

temple as its photographer and editor of<br />

their magazine,” he says.<br />

“Later, I started photographing<br />

Bollywood stars for the local papers when<br />

they came to town,” says Bodalia. “I still<br />

do that today; I’m considered the official<br />

photographer for Bollywood stars.”<br />

As he packs up his precious images,<br />

Bodalia says he’s on his way to Surrey<br />

to yet another photo assignment. “I’m<br />

heading to a fundraiser for cancer,” he<br />

says. “Whatever fundraiser people ask<br />

me to photograph, I will always try to<br />

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The Inspired Sufi<br />

By Azim Jamal<br />

Making the Most of Time<br />

Sometimes you have to slow down<br />

to speed up. One day, I came home<br />

to a busy work schedule. My son,<br />

Tawfiq, wanted some attention from<br />

me and I ignored him, focusing on my<br />

computer work. He stood right beside<br />

me, not letting me work. I spent two<br />

hours trying to shrug him off. I did not<br />

get much of my work done and Tawfiq<br />

was disappointed at his dad’s lack of<br />

interest. The next time this happened, I<br />

went on my knees and gave Tawfiq my<br />

heart, attention and love. Within three<br />

minutes, he was so satisfied that he went<br />

on to play and I had a good hour and fiftyseven<br />

minutes to work on the computer.<br />

Sometimes in life, slow is fast. If you have<br />

an irate customer complaining about<br />

something, give that person your heart,<br />

body, mind, spirit and unconditional<br />

attention and in a short time you will<br />

defuse the difficult situation.<br />

“The less effort, the faster and more<br />

powerful you will be.” — Bruce Lee<br />

There is often an inverse relationship<br />

between urgent and important. People<br />

focus on urgent, but the urgent is not<br />

always the important. For example: health<br />

is not urgent but is important; reading is<br />

not urgent but is important; reflection is<br />

not urgent but is important. Brain Tracy<br />

states: “One of the best uses of your time<br />

is to increase your competence in your<br />

key result areas.”<br />

Many of us are familiar with the<br />

example of big rocks being put in a jug<br />

followed by small rocks, water and sand.<br />

Once the big rocks are put first, the small<br />

rocks, water and sand go in easily. If,<br />

however, the small rocks, water and sand<br />

go in first, there is no room for big rocks.<br />

What many of us don’t know is what our<br />

big rocks are and if we are putting enough<br />

time into our big rocks. The important<br />

items are the “big rocks,” which if<br />

not done first will probably not be<br />

done at all.<br />

Doing less to achieve more I was<br />

sharing the concept of doing less to<br />

achieve more with a pharmaceutical<br />

company in the United States. One of<br />

the participants could not get his head<br />

around this concept. He questioned how<br />

one can achieve more by doing less. He<br />

was always taught to achieve more by<br />

doing more — working harder, faster,<br />

When we learn to<br />

differentiate between<br />

chronos (linear time)<br />

and kairos (quality or<br />

value time), we begin to<br />

manage time well and<br />

appreciate the power of<br />

being present.<br />

and smarter. I explained the key is to<br />

be laser-focused on important things<br />

and eliminate insignificant things. If<br />

something is not significant, it should be<br />

eliminated. If for some reason you cannot<br />

eliminate it, you should delegate it. If<br />

you cannot eliminate or delegate, then<br />

procrastinate doing it. After elimination,<br />

delegation and procrastination, you need<br />

to prioritize. Once this is achieved, you<br />

execute around a tight set of priorities. In<br />

doing this, you do less but achieve more<br />

by removing items that do not add value<br />

to your life.<br />

If you have too many priorities, you<br />

have no priorities! As Warren Buffet states:<br />

“I can’t be involved in 50 or 75 things.<br />

That’s Noah’s Ark’s way of investing. I like<br />

to put a large amount of money in a few<br />

things.”<br />

Kairos and Kaizen, not Chronos<br />

When we spend our time wisely and<br />

practise continuous improvement, we<br />

invite “signs” that expedite our journey in<br />

this direction. Some people are too caught<br />

up with traditional time management.<br />

Chronos is the Greek word for time as<br />

we measure it by clocks and calendars.<br />

It is linear and sequential. Everyone goes<br />

through time. However, few practice<br />

Kairos. Kairos is the Greek word used in<br />

the Christian Bible to indicate a fixed or<br />

definite period — an opportune season or<br />

a critical time. The latter practice happens<br />

when we are present. To get maximum<br />

benefit from it, you must reflect on how<br />

to spend it and how to make appropriate<br />

choices. When we learn to differentiate<br />

between chronos (linear time) and kairos<br />

(quality or value time), we begin to manage<br />

time well and appreciate the power of<br />

being present. Kaizen is a Japanese word<br />

for continuous improvement, which<br />

also happens when we are fully present<br />

and spend time on important things,<br />

such as reading, exercise, planning and<br />

meditation.<br />

Knowing when your energy is highest<br />

helps you do your most important work<br />

at that time. I wake up at 1:30 a.m. a few<br />

days a week to do my most creative work.<br />

I sleep at 8.30 p.m. I do not recommend<br />

this sleeping pattern to everyone.<br />

However, choose the pattern that enables<br />

you to do your most important work<br />

when your energy is at its highest. p<br />

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Politics<br />

by Andy Radia<br />

The Canadian Dream?<br />

People from around the world have<br />

long settled in Canada with hopes for<br />

a better life. New immigrants are drawn<br />

to this country with the belief that it will<br />

offer their families a higher standard of<br />

living, well-paying jobs, a great education<br />

system, and an abundance of social benefits<br />

and safety nets. This is the so-called<br />

“Canadian dream.”<br />

Increasingly, however, Canadian immigrants<br />

are experiencing economic struggle.<br />

The unemployment rate amongst<br />

new immigrants is now double that of<br />

the general population, under-employment<br />

in this group is between 25 to 35<br />

per cent, and one out of every five new<br />

immigrants is living in poverty.<br />

For many newcomers, the Canadian<br />

dream has become a nightmare.<br />

In the past, immigrants tended to<br />

catch up or even exceed the income levels<br />

of their Canadian-born brethren after<br />

a short period of time. Immigrants who<br />

arrived in 1971, for example, started out<br />

with an average annual income about 30<br />

per cent lower than that of the average<br />

Canadian born, but in 10 years they were<br />

making more than the Canadian born.<br />

Over the past two decades, however, the<br />

economic fortunes of immigrants have<br />

changed for the worse. In 1990, those<br />

newcomers who had been in Canada for<br />

10 years only reached about 90 per cent<br />

of the earnings of the Canadian born; in<br />

2000, the same comparison shows that<br />

immigrants earned about 80 per cent of<br />

average earnings.<br />

The Canadian government has taken<br />

a two-pronged approach to curb the<br />

declining economic welfare of its immigrants.<br />

The current Conservative government<br />

has been the first government in<br />

our country’s history to tackle the issue of<br />

foreign-credential recognition.<br />

Many newcomers have difficulty finding<br />

work that best suits their education<br />

and qualifications in part because their<br />

credentials are not recognized. We have<br />

all heard the countless stories of foreigntrained<br />

doctors who end up driving taxis<br />

and engineers who become janitors.<br />

“I think it’s a tragedy that we have so<br />

many people who arrive from some of<br />

the highest levels of their societies and<br />

then come to Canada and end up being<br />

stuck in survival jobs,” says Jason Kenney,<br />

Canada’s minister of immigration<br />

and citizenship.<br />

We’ve all heard the<br />

countless stories of<br />

foreign-trained doctors<br />

who end up driving taxis<br />

. . . We are bringing in<br />

hundreds of thousands of<br />

immigrants, based on their<br />

skills and qualifications,<br />

who are not able to utilize<br />

their skills once they arrive<br />

in Canada.<br />

“It’s not acceptable. It’s a waste of human<br />

resources and, frankly, immoral.”<br />

Kenney’s ministry is now spending<br />

more than $32 million a year to fund<br />

the Foreign Credential Referrals Office<br />

(FCRO). The FCRO provides practical<br />

information to newcomers about what<br />

they need to become accredited, both<br />

in Canada for those newcomers already<br />

here, and abroad for those waiting for an<br />

opportunity to come to our country. The<br />

federal government has also committed<br />

another $50 million to the provinces to<br />

work with provincial agencies and licensing<br />

boards to develop common pathways<br />

to recognition.<br />

With a modicum of success on the issue<br />

of credential recognition, Kenney<br />

has now turned his attention to language<br />

proficiency of new Canadians.<br />

The topic of language proficiency has<br />

long been a political “hot potato.” Political<br />

parties have historically avoided the<br />

issue at the risk of alienating ethnic communities<br />

and losing the all-important<br />

ethnic vote.<br />

To Kenney’s credit, he has confronted<br />

this issue with full vigour.<br />

“The single most important factor in<br />

economic success for new Canadians is<br />

language proficiency,” says Kenney.<br />

Kenney points to a recent survey of employers,<br />

conducted by Compass Research,<br />

that shows that language proficiency was<br />

the primary reason why companies were<br />

not hiring new-immigrant workers.<br />

International data supports the Compass<br />

poll. A decade ago, Australia had<br />

the same problems as Canada: too many<br />

immigrants were not succeeding, including<br />

those with skills and education. As a<br />

result, the Australian government implemented<br />

tougher language requirements;<br />

Australia now requires all prospective<br />

economic migrants to achieve a high<br />

score on a language proficiency test.<br />

The policy has been successful. In Australia,<br />

82 per cent of economic migrants<br />

get work within six months. In Canada,<br />

only 60 per cent do. In Australia, 76 per<br />

cent of all employed economic migrants<br />

earn more than the median wage. In<br />

Canada, it’s only 33 per cent.<br />

30 Mehfil May/June 2009


While Kenney isn’t willing to go as<br />

far as the Australians in terms of implementing<br />

higher language standards for<br />

prospective Canadian immigrants, he<br />

recently made some public comments<br />

about requiring newcomers to show proficiency<br />

in English or French before receiving<br />

citizenship.<br />

“There is a current long-standing legal<br />

requirement in the citizenship act<br />

for new Canadians to speak English or<br />

French. I do have a concern that this requirement<br />

is not being consistently enforced,”<br />

he says.<br />

“I recently met a citizen of Canada who<br />

has lived in B.C. for 15 years and couldn’t<br />

speak any English. This I find troubling.<br />

I think we’re letting down newcomers if<br />

we don’t help them integrate more successful<br />

with French or English language<br />

requirements.”<br />

The government can’t be accused of<br />

paying “lip-service” to this issue. Since<br />

2006, the Conservative government has<br />

nearly quadrupled immigrant-settlement<br />

funding by committing $1.4 billion over<br />

five years.<br />

The government also offers free English<br />

classes to all immigrants but, astonishingly,<br />

only 25 per cent of new immigrants<br />

are enrolling.<br />

Only 25 per cent?<br />

Despite the refrain from those who are<br />

anti-immigration, Canada needs a robust<br />

immigration strategy to mitigate our<br />

long-range skilled-labour shortages and<br />

to stave off eternal economic stagnancy.<br />

What’s happening now, however, is that<br />

we are bringing in hundreds of thousands<br />

of immigrants, based on their skills and<br />

qualifications, who are not able to utilize<br />

their skills once they arrive in Canada. As<br />

a result they can’t find suitable employment<br />

and face economic hardship.<br />

To improve the economic outcomes of<br />

new immigrants, the federal government<br />

needs to continue its work with the provinces<br />

and professional licensing organizations<br />

to bring clarity to the credential<br />

-recognition process.<br />

New immigrants need to do their share<br />

as well — they need to learn English at a<br />

level that enables them to communicate<br />

effectively with employers, co-workers<br />

and the public.<br />

The Canadian dream is still attainable.<br />

But we all have some work to do to make<br />

it happen. p<br />

Andy Radia is political columnist based in Vancouver,<br />

B.C. His articles have been published in the<br />

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Metro. He can be contacted through his website at<br />

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Feature<br />

Nannygate<br />

A high-profile case puts spotlight<br />

on care-givers program<br />

When former nannies employed by the family of Liberal MP Ruby Dhalla accused<br />

Dhalla of mistreatment and exploitation, the allegations, which Dhalla denies,<br />

prompted unprecedented scrutiny of the federal Live-In Caregiver program. Richelyn<br />

Tongson and Magdalene Gordo, immigrant caregivers employed to care for Dhalla’s mother,<br />

allege they were forced to work long hours for less than minimum wage and were expected to<br />

perform tasks unrelated to caregiving, including shovelling snow, polishing shoes and washing<br />

cars. Dhalla has vehemently denied all the accusations levelled by the former nannies and the<br />

case is the subject of a hearing before the Commons Citizenship and Immigration Committee.<br />

Advocates for immigrant caregivers<br />

say allegations in the case highlight<br />

problems with the Live-In Caregiver program.<br />

They say that several of the program’s<br />

requirements make caregivers<br />

vulnerable to exploitation. Specifically,<br />

caregivers’ advocates are calling for<br />

changes to the requirement that caregivers<br />

must live in their employers’<br />

home, a stipulation they say can lead<br />

to a caregiver being “on call” 24 hours<br />

a day. Caregivers must also prove they<br />

have worked 24 months providing<br />

live-in care within a three-year period in<br />

order to apply for permanent resident<br />

status. If they fail to be employed for the<br />

24 months, they can be deported.<br />

Mehfil Magazine spoke to Dex<br />

Thompson of the West Coast Domestic<br />

Workers Association about the Live-<br />

In Caregiver program and the concerns<br />

that the association most often<br />

hears from foreign nannies working in<br />

Canada.<br />

Dex Thomspon,<br />

West Coast<br />

Domestic Workers<br />

Association<br />

What are some of the misconceptions<br />

people have about the Live-in Caregiver<br />

program?<br />

Those who are looking for a caregiver<br />

don’t realize how long the process can<br />

take. It can take up to two years from<br />

the initial decision to hire a caregiver to<br />

the time that caregiver arrives in Canada.<br />

The majority of employers are unaware<br />

or don’t care about the full array of<br />

employer obligations, from document<br />

requirements (such as issuing payslips,<br />

records of employment, etc) to basic<br />

employment standards. The number<br />

of employers who violate employment<br />

standards around pay, working hours,<br />

job duties etc. is shocking. And that’s<br />

not even counting the employers who<br />

intentionally abuse their caregivers. I<br />

think that many employers don’t realize<br />

or consider the fact that caregivers are<br />

leaving their own children, partners and<br />

loved ones far away to come and care for<br />

our families.<br />

Virtually all of the caregivers we meet<br />

have no idea how difficult it will be to<br />

complete the Live-in Caregivers Program.<br />

Unscrupulous agents will usually<br />

paint a rosy picture involving a straightforward<br />

24 months of work followed by<br />

quick approval as a permanent resident.<br />

They don’t talk about how vulnerable<br />

caregivers are when they are isolated in<br />

employer’s homes, and how few employers<br />

actually respect caregivers’ rights.<br />

In fact, most caregivers are unaware<br />

of their rights. Extraordinarily long<br />

processing delays for work permits and<br />

permanent residence applications means<br />

that some caregivers will be in Canada<br />

for up to seven years before they finally<br />

become landed and are reunited with<br />

their families.<br />

This is assuming that they can actually<br />

complete their 24 months – processing<br />

delays when changing employers make<br />

it difficult, sometimes impossible to<br />

complete 24 months in three years, never<br />

mind the fact that they also mean that<br />

caregivers can be without legal means<br />

to work for up to almost a year, in some<br />

cases.<br />

I’m sure that most caregivers are<br />

unaware of the many different criteria<br />

that can make them and their loved ones<br />

inadmissible for permanent residence,<br />

including medical inadmissibility, as in<br />

the high-profile case of Juana Tejada.<br />

(Editor’s note: Applicants to the Livein<br />

Caregiver Program must complete a<br />

medical exam before they are issued a<br />

work visa, and another when applying<br />

for permanent residency. When caregiver<br />

32 Mehfil May/June 2009


“Just think of the worst boss you ever had, then<br />

imagine living with them, with nowhere to turn for<br />

help. It’s the caregiver’s word against the employer’s.<br />

Who believes a caregiver, especially when their<br />

employer is a well respected member of society?”<br />

Juana Tejada took her second medical<br />

exam in 2006 and was diagnosed with<br />

colon cancer, she was ordered to be deported.<br />

After appealing the decision and<br />

winning the right to stay in Canada, she<br />

lobbied for a law which would exempt<br />

nannies from the second immigration<br />

medical exam. Tejada died last March.<br />

Passage of the proposed “Juana Tejada<br />

Law” was recommended in May by the<br />

standing committee on citizenship and<br />

immigration.)<br />

What are the most common types of<br />

abuse you hear about from nannies?<br />

It is extremely rare to meet a caregiver<br />

who is paid properly and has been treated<br />

well by their employer. Employers will<br />

force caregivers to do things that they<br />

are not supposed to, such as clean their<br />

offices or friends’ homes. Employers will<br />

demand money for documents they are<br />

legally obligated to provide. Of course,<br />

we’ve also seen too many cases of verbal,<br />

emotional, physical and sexual abuse.<br />

Do you think there is a lot of abuse<br />

that goes unreported?<br />

Caregivers are uniquely vulnerable to<br />

abuse, by virtue of the fact that they<br />

are required to live in their employers’<br />

homes. Just think of the worst boss you<br />

ever had, then imagine living with them,<br />

with nowhere to turn for help. It’s the<br />

caregiver’s word against the employer’s<br />

– who believes a caregiver, especially<br />

when their employer is a well respected<br />

member of society? Even then, who<br />

would intervene? The government? So<br />

many caregivers keep silent about abuse<br />

because they are worried that if they<br />

leave, they won’t be able to complete<br />

their 24 months in time. Employers will<br />

hold caregivers hostage by taking their<br />

passports and documents. They prey<br />

upon misinformation and the caregivers’<br />

fear.<br />

How well prepared are domestic<br />

workers for their new lives in Canada,<br />

including the potential for abuse?<br />

Agencies illegally charge fees from<br />

caregivers who seek their help to come<br />

to Canada. Governments encourage<br />

workers to go overseas because they<br />

send remittances that benefit their home<br />

economies. It’s extremely difficult for<br />

caregivers to get the real story before they<br />

enter the program.<br />

How well informed are employers who<br />

hire foreign caregivers?<br />

The onus is on the employer to learn<br />

about the rules, and there is little incentive<br />

to do so . . . Employers don’t get in<br />

trouble for unauthorized work; caregivers<br />

do. Caregivers are the ones who suffer<br />

when employers don’t provide them with<br />

necessary documents.<br />

What is the government doing about<br />

the abuses?<br />

Not enough. Immigration Minister Jason<br />

Kenney said this year that he planned to<br />

crack down on unscrupulous agencies,<br />

but we haven’t yet seen the results. The<br />

House of Commons Standing Committee<br />

on Citizenship and Immigration<br />

recently released a report with numerous<br />

recommendations to improve the situation<br />

of temporary foreign workers and<br />

non-status individuals, many of which<br />

were helpful, although they didn’t go far<br />

enough. It remains to be seen whether<br />

the government will actually implement<br />

them.<br />

What are some of the things your<br />

organization would like to see changed<br />

and how will those changes improve<br />

the situation?<br />

We would like to see live-in caregivers<br />

granted permanent residence upon arrival<br />

in Canada, as is the case with other<br />

classes of immigrants. At the very, very<br />

least, if no other changes are made to the<br />

program, caregivers should receive open<br />

work permits that are not employerspecific,<br />

and should not be required to<br />

live-in.<br />

excerpt:<br />

TEMPORARY FOREIGN WORKERS<br />

AND NONSTATUS WORKERS<br />

Report of the Standing Committee<br />

on Citizenship and Immigration<br />

“The Committee recognizes that<br />

the current program places the<br />

live-in caregiver in a disadvantaged<br />

position, dependent on her<br />

employment for more than her<br />

livelihood. No one should feel that<br />

they have to tolerate mistreatment in<br />

the short-term for the long-term gain<br />

of permanent residency. Nor should<br />

anyone be prevented from obtaining<br />

permanent residency when they fail<br />

to meet requirements through no<br />

fault of their own. ”<br />

Recommendations:<br />

• that the Government of Canada<br />

provide for a possible one-year<br />

extension of the three-year period<br />

during which a live-in caregiver must<br />

complete 24 months of employment<br />

in order to be eligible to apply for<br />

permanent resident status, when<br />

there is a good reason.<br />

• the implementation of the "Juana<br />

Tejada Law" which would exempt<br />

live-in caregivers from the second<br />

medical exam when they apply for<br />

permanent residence.<br />

• that the Government of Canada<br />

remove the requirement that<br />

individuals with certain work permits<br />

live with or on the premises of their<br />

employer.<br />

What can caregivers do if they are being<br />

exploited?<br />

Caregivers should learn their rights and<br />

not be afraid to stand up for themselves.<br />

Unfortunately, as temporary workers,<br />

caregivers aren’t entitled to the same<br />

kind of services that Canadian citizens<br />

and permanent residents are. However,<br />

there are some advocates available to<br />

provide information and support, such<br />

as the Vancouver Committee for Domestic<br />

Workers and Caregivers Rights.<br />

Caregivers are always free to contact us<br />

(WCDWA) for free information and<br />

legal assistance. p<br />

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www.mehfilmagazine.com or email us<br />

at opinions@mehfilmagazine.com<br />

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Feature<br />

Nanomania Sweeps India<br />

MUMBAI — The rush of luxury-car owners seeking to buy the Nano,<br />

the world’s cheapest car, was not the only surprise hours after advance<br />

bookings for the latest product from Tata Motors opened across India<br />

on April 9.<br />

At the Concorde Tata Motor showroom, in central Mumbai, a roadside<br />

cobbler, Maruti Bhandare, paid the equivalent of $2,819 US as<br />

an advance payment for a Nano Deluxe. The base model costs around<br />

$2,000.<br />

Maruti Bhandare, who shares a first name with Nano’s biggest competitor,<br />

Maruti Suzuki, became a star attraction for TV news channels.<br />

Next morning, he was India’s most famous Nano hopeful buyer, and<br />

possibly Asia's first roadside cobbler to pay 75 per cent up front for a<br />

deluxe model car.<br />

Yet many more people like Bhandares<br />

could be out there. For the first time in<br />

India, advance car-booking forms were<br />

provided for the Nano launch, and Tata<br />

Motors had sold more than one million<br />

forms for the Nano at $6 per form since<br />

April 1. For the first time, buyers paid 75<br />

per cent and upwards of the total car cost<br />

in advance — and that was without being<br />

allowed the benefit of a test drive.<br />

Tata Motors could pull in an estimated<br />

$1.4 billion from Nano advance<br />

bookings. That will be a useful lift for<br />

the cash-strapped company, which by<br />

June has to service $2 billion of a $3-billion<br />

loan incurred in buying British car<br />

brands Jaguar and Land Rover.<br />

Tata is struggling with production<br />

problems for the Nano, which was unveiled<br />

in January 2008. Barely 3,000<br />

Nanos roll out monthly, against the<br />

planned annual production of 250,000.<br />

To meet demand, Tata Motors, part<br />

of the $62.5 billion Tata group, plans<br />

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to allot 100,000 Nanos in a randomly<br />

computer-generated lottery after two<br />

months.<br />

Though Tata group chairman Ratan<br />

Tata said he is targeting the Nano for<br />

small towns, interest was bigger in larger<br />

cities, although demand there cut across<br />

income groups. Dealers in metropolitan<br />

centers such as Kolkata hired more staff<br />

and security to deal with the rush.<br />

"To my surprise, even owners of<br />

BMWs, Audis and Mercedes cars have<br />

bought Nano booking forms, besides<br />

the middle class," said KLK Paul, general<br />

manager of Nano dealer Wasan Motors<br />

in Mumbai.<br />

Paul told Asia Times Online that his<br />

three Mumbai showrooms saw 5,000 to<br />

6,000 people, with 1,000 Nano booking<br />

forms sold in two days.<br />

Cobbler Bhandare represented one<br />

extreme of prospective buyers of the<br />

“People’s Car,” as Tata Motors has<br />

dubbed the Nano. “The Nano is based<br />

on an emotional desire to provide a safe<br />

and affordable mode of transport for Indian<br />

families which were exposed to the<br />

weather and other dangers,” Ratan Tata<br />

said in March.<br />

Tata ought to have remembered that<br />

emotional responses to problems pro-<br />

34 Mehfil May/June 2009


duce only new problems. Besides production<br />

headaches, the Nano has raised questions<br />

as to whether it was seducing into<br />

car ownership an income group, such as<br />

roadside cobblers, who may be vulnerable<br />

to the costs of maintaining a car<br />

Ratan Tata said he embarked on the<br />

Nano project after seeing a family riding<br />

a scooter in a monsoon night in Mumbai.<br />

Yet a parallel question is whether<br />

unleashing the world's cheapest car on<br />

the world's second-largest middle class<br />

can solve transportation problems for the<br />

middle class family or increase their daily<br />

commuting misery.<br />

TV anchors at the Concorde Nano<br />

showroom excitedly hailed Bhandare as<br />

the “common man” for whom the Nano<br />

was made. Encouraged by a cup of chai,<br />

or spicy tea, across the road from his<br />

workspot, he laid bare his thoughts to<br />

Asia Times Online on why he was prepared<br />

to pay nearly twice his annual income<br />

as an advance for a car.<br />

Bhandare said he had saved for six years<br />

to buy a motorcycle for about $1,000,<br />

but began saving an additional $3 daily to<br />

buy the Nano when it appeared in 2008.<br />

He earns $140 a month, he said, from<br />

one of the cupboard-like, tiny roadside<br />

shoe shops that dot Mumbai.<br />

Bhandare said he doesn’t know how<br />

to drive a car and hasn’t yet thought of<br />

getting a driving license. He had not consulted<br />

anyone about buying the car, until<br />

he reached the showroom.<br />

How often would he use the car?<br />

“I may use the Nano twice a month to<br />

take my family to the temple.”<br />

What about monthly expenses to run<br />

a car? His “daily car budget” would be 30<br />

rupees [60 US cents]".<br />

That is well short of the costs estimated<br />

by a “professional” in the car business,<br />

elderly cab-driver Salim Mohammed,<br />

who said 2,500 rupees a month would be<br />

needed to run a car on the clogged roads<br />

of Mumbai, India’s financial hub, given<br />

use of about 20 kilometers a day. “Less<br />

than 1,000 rupees would be needed if the<br />

car is taken out sparingly.”<br />

So Bhandare could be OK with his<br />

30 rupees daily car budget if his Nano<br />

is largely a stationary family showpiece<br />

and he doesn't run up garage bills, parking<br />

fees and waste fuel in the city’s traffic<br />

snarls — which the Nano could worsen,<br />

their sales helped along by banks.<br />

The Nano could increase India’s carowning<br />

population by 65 per cent, according<br />

to a Crisil market survey, while<br />

17 leading Indian banks, besides Tata<br />

Motors, offer loans with monthly installments<br />

starting at $50, the cheapest they<br />

have offered for a car.<br />

The State Bank of India’s loan eligibility<br />

for a Nano mentions as potential<br />

borrowers self-employed people earning<br />

$2,000 annually to salaried workers pulling<br />

in $1,500. An office peon in Mumbai<br />

earns $1,900 a year.<br />

Just how well the new car will perform<br />

in the testing circumstances of everyday<br />

urban traffic will be revealed in the coming<br />

weeks. But no question marks remain<br />

over the Nano design. It delivered on<br />

promises of comfortable inner space. All<br />

six feet-plus of this correspondent could<br />

fit into the back seat of the 633-cc car,<br />

with an astonishing five inches of legroom<br />

to spare.<br />

“The spacious interior is the biggest<br />

surprise,” agrees Joseph D’Silva, resident<br />

of Aberdeen, Hong Kong, who visited the<br />

Concorde Tata Motors showroom. He estimates<br />

that the $2,000 Nano in Hong<br />

Kong would have running costs of $3,300<br />

a month. “Even though my family can afford<br />

a Mercedes Benz, I don’t own a car<br />

in Hong Kong because public transport is<br />

very good,” he said. “That should be the<br />

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Others wanting the Nano as the second<br />

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father wanted to buy the Nano, but I said<br />

we should wait and watch to see how it<br />

fares on the road,” said Rishi Bhandoo,<br />

advertising manager at The Statesman, a<br />

leading English daily from West Bengal<br />

state.<br />

Nano relocated its factory site last<br />

October from West Bengal, in Singur,<br />

following violent political agitation protesting<br />

the factory being set up on alleged<br />

agricultural land. The alternative factory<br />

site in Gujarat state is expected to be fully<br />

functioning only from next year.<br />

Bhandare said he won’t wait long for<br />

delivery of his car. “If I don’t get the Nano<br />

from the first allotment, I will cancel my<br />

booking and buy a motorcycle,” he said.<br />

Sometimes in life, we regret having got<br />

what we wanted most. In six months, he<br />

and other prospective buyers will know<br />

whether they are lucky to own a Nano,<br />

or be cursing their desire to have got one.<br />

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Profile<br />

Gary Dhaliwal<br />

Built for Success<br />

By Michelle Hopkins<br />

When people mistook Gary Dhaliwal’s youth as an impediment, it simply<br />

made him hungrier to succeed.<br />

Right after graduating from high school in 2005, Dhaliwal founded<br />

Mainland Civil Works Inc., a one-man excavation business. Initially, he worked<br />

small jobs in and around the Surrey area. Soon, through word-of-mouth and<br />

a reputation for jobs done well and on time, Dhaliwal began picking up bigger<br />

contracts.<br />

“Every time someone hesitated to deal<br />

with me, it made me try even harder,” says<br />

Dhaliwal. “I thought that if I could convince<br />

them to give me a chance, the work<br />

would speak for itself.”<br />

Today, Mainland Civil Works Inc. is a<br />

bonded, unionized company with an office<br />

staff of eight and a crew of more than<br />

50 professionals (estimators, project co-ordinators,<br />

tradesmen and site foremen) out<br />

working in the field. The fleet consists of a<br />

wide range of construction equipment, including<br />

more than 20 excavators, backhoes<br />

and dump trucks.<br />

The young entrepreneur attributes his<br />

success to dedication, ethics and skilled employees.<br />

He says he understood early on the<br />

significance of hiring the right people.<br />

“When you surround yourself with good<br />

people, you are at an advantage,” says Dhaliwal.<br />

“I have a great right-hand man, Peter<br />

Baskovic. He assists me so much and has<br />

been instrumental in helping me move the<br />

company forward.”<br />

Dhaliwal, who describes himself as a<br />

hands-on type of boss says, “We run Mainland<br />

Civil Works Inc as a team. I tell the<br />

guys they are as responsible as I am for the<br />

success of the company. Loyalty and respect<br />

run both ways.”<br />

A typical day for Dhaliwal, who’s a member<br />

of the B.C. Road Builders Association<br />

and the Vancouver Regional Construction<br />

Association, starts at 5:30 a.m. He usually<br />

begins by visiting each job site, where he<br />

meets with his foreman and crews to ensure<br />

they don’t have any pressing issues or<br />

concerns. On a given day, Dhaliwal visits<br />

between eight to 10 sites, spread around<br />

the Lower Mainland. Then he heads to the<br />

office, where he handles paperwork, deals<br />

with prospective clients and anything else<br />

that needs his attention.<br />

“At the beginning, when I was building<br />

my company, I put in 16- to 17-hour days,<br />

six days a week,” he says.<br />

He still works six days a week. However,<br />

he’s down to 10- to 12-hour days. To bring<br />

balance to his life, Dhaliwal gets out for<br />

the occasional round of golf, plays a little<br />

competitive hockey and is in the midst of<br />

acquiring his helicopter licence.<br />

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tions, he would visit the work sites overseen<br />

by his father, real estate developer<br />

Darshan Dhaliwal.<br />

“My dad had his own excavator and<br />

as a kid I recall playing on his machine,”<br />

he says. “I was living every boy’s dream of<br />

playing with big Tonka toys.”<br />

When Gary approached his parents to<br />

finance his goals, he received their wholehearted<br />

blessing.<br />

“My parents supported me fully,” he<br />

says. “They believed in me enough to provide<br />

me with the capital needed to start<br />

out. My dad really impressed upon me<br />

the importance of hard work and good<br />

work ethics.”<br />

Although the economy has slowed the<br />

construction business somewhat, Mainland<br />

Civil Works continues to expand.<br />

“I will be hiring another 20 employees<br />

for a new project we are about to begin,<br />

the South Fraser perimeter road from<br />

Tsawwassen to the Port Mann Bridge,”<br />

says Dhaliwal, adding he competes for<br />

contracts with about 20 large firms and<br />

some smaller firms as well. “We are also<br />

working on the new Surrey Hospital outpatient<br />

facility.”<br />

Dhaliwal is moving his company into<br />

new ventures such as drilling and shot<br />

crete — a method in which concrete is<br />

sprayed onto a surface rather than poured<br />

in the conventional way.<br />

“This method has been primarily used<br />

in Europe and is just recently being introduced<br />

in Canada,” says Dhaliwal.<br />

Meanwhile, the White Rock resident<br />

firmly believes in supporting the communities<br />

in which he lives and works. To<br />

that end, Dhaliwal sponsors a number of<br />

local, non-profit organizations such as the<br />

Surrey Food Bank, Ivan Hanchard Charity,<br />

UBC Students Taking Initiatives, the<br />

B.C. Paraplegic Association, B.C. Professional<br />

Fire Fighters Burn Fund and Surrey<br />

Memorial Hospital.<br />

“Every Christmas, we place donation<br />

bins at all of our sites and ask for donations<br />

of gently-used clothing,” Gary says.<br />

“The staff then distributes the items to<br />

the homeless in Surrey as well as in the<br />

Downtown Eastside.”<br />

Having the opportunity to give back<br />

is one of the greatest rewards of his career,<br />

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like Royal Bank of Canada, Business<br />

Development Bank of Canada and


PHOTO BY RON SANGHA<br />

“Anticipating the future needs<br />

of our evolving community<br />

has helped us identify<br />

opportunities and we’ve made<br />

sure we’ve had the necessary<br />

expertise and experience to<br />

be able to serve those needs<br />

professionally and effectively.”<br />

– Raj Binpal,<br />

Forward thinkers (from left): Lawyers Jason Sandhu, Raj Binpal and Rajdeep Singh Deol.<br />

Coast Capital Savings Credit Union.<br />

In addition, Binpal and Associates<br />

recently won a high-profile, precedentsetting<br />

Court of Appeal case involving<br />

mortgage fraud.<br />

“We acted to protect one of our<br />

clients — a homeowner who had been<br />

defrauded and became a victim of the<br />

system,” says Rajdeep Singh Deol, one<br />

of the firm’s lawyers who participated<br />

in the appeal. “Our victory means<br />

that BC’s mortgage fraud laws will be<br />

interpreted differently in the future and<br />

homeowners will be better protected.”<br />

A UK-trained lawyer, Deol joined<br />

Binpal and Associates in 2003 bringing<br />

with him extensive experience in real<br />

estate litigation, complex commercial<br />

litigation and construction litigation.<br />

Also part of the Binpal and<br />

Associates team is Jason Sandhu,<br />

whose focus lies in corporate commercial,<br />

real estate and wills and estates<br />

law. Since 2005, he has managed and<br />

completed numerous asset and share<br />

transactions and land development<br />

matters.<br />

Asked about what he sees in the community’s<br />

future, Binpal says: “Two<br />

words: Estate planning.”<br />

The community, he explains, is at<br />

a point now where there are many families<br />

and individuals who have accumulated<br />

significant wealth. “Our people<br />

have worked hard, saved, invested<br />

wisely and have created wealth through<br />

entrepreneurship. They have a lot of<br />

money and are starting to think about<br />

passing it on to their children.”<br />

While Binpal and Associates continues<br />

to work in corporate and property<br />

law, two years ago they also began<br />

establishing themselves as an estate<br />

planning firm.<br />

“We have clients who say, ‘I want<br />

my children to inherit my money but<br />

what if they get divorced? I don’t want<br />

the spouse to just walk away with<br />

half,’ or ‘If my child becomes a drunk<br />

I don’t want the money to be squandered<br />

but make sure it passes on to my<br />

grandchildren and their children,’” he<br />

says.<br />

Fortunately, there are legal instruments<br />

that can be set up to ensure<br />

one’s wealth remains safe, even after<br />

you’ve passed on.<br />

“People want to be able to pass on<br />

their wealth from generation to generation,<br />

but it’s very important to do it in<br />

a fashion that protects it from future<br />

claimants,” he says.<br />

“I want our clients to be able<br />

to sleep in peace at night knowing<br />

that whatever money they will leave<br />

behind, it will be protected for generations<br />

to come.”<br />

Now that’s forward thinking.


Feature<br />

Sunita Bapooji<br />

Stretching<br />

the Mind<br />

with Sookshma Yoga<br />

“I hated yoga,” Sunita Bapooji recounts in a speech to a yoga class<br />

about childhood memories of watching her family practise the ancient<br />

art. “Every morning I would see my five brothers, my four sisters and<br />

my father standing on their heads and I’d say, ‘Why do I have to<br />

struggle?’ I just want to sing.”<br />

She loved to sing and had won numerous<br />

awards since she was four years old. But at the<br />

age of 11, Bapooji lost her voice to an illness<br />

that affected her lungs and vocal chords. “I<br />

think I became very proud,” she says, speculating<br />

on the reason she lost her voice.<br />

Then one day her father said, “If you want<br />

your voice back, listen to me and I’ll teach you<br />

subtle yogic techniques.”<br />

She listened and learned and practised and<br />

soon discovered that yoga didn’t just help her<br />

voice but helped her find an inner peace. She’s<br />

never been sick since, she says.<br />

Today, Sunita Bapooji, 50, is described by<br />

her followers as a divine guru of yoga and meditation<br />

and is said to have helped heal people in<br />

India, Africa and North America through Sookshma<br />

Yoga, a form of yoga she pioneered and<br />

has been teaching for more than 25 years. She is<br />

also the founder of the Sunita Center for Overall<br />

Wellbeing in Surrey, B.C., where she conducts<br />

workshops and teaches Sookshma yoga.<br />

Yoga, she says, comes from the Sanskrit word<br />

meaning unity, while Sookshma means subtle<br />

or micro.<br />

“The trillions of cells in your body each have<br />

a subtle energy,” she says. But that energy gets<br />

suppressed because of the stress in most people’s<br />

lives, she explains.<br />

“Modern life is very hectic. No time for self,”<br />

she says. “These six emotions — anger, greed,<br />

lust, jealousy, pride and ego — can wreak havoc<br />

on our bodies,” she adds. “They breed disease,<br />

depression and moodiness.”<br />

But Sookshma Yoga can cleanse the body of<br />

the negative effects these emotions have and free<br />

the microcosmic energy in each cell, she says.<br />

“It is not a fitness program,” says Dr. Suman<br />

Kollipara, one of Bapooji’s students, adding that<br />

there is more to yoga than breathing and positions.<br />

“The person who wrote the book on yoga<br />

principals... the first line in his book says Yoga<br />

is created to stop the fluctuations of thoughts<br />

and mind; it is to control the mind,” he says,<br />

adding that what Bapooji teaches is how to help<br />

“retrain the mind.”<br />

Bapooji says the reason so many people live<br />

with chaos, sickness and lack of peace is because<br />

of the disharmony between what they think and<br />

how they act.<br />

“Our minds are like monkeys, restless, and if<br />

there is no union between the body and mind,<br />

there is no peace.”<br />

Sookshma Yoga’s foundation is based on ridding<br />

oneself of negative human instincts — or,<br />

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“Our minds are like<br />

monkeys, restless, and<br />

if there is no union<br />

between the body and<br />

mind, there is no peace.”<br />

– Sunita Bapooji<br />

Sookshma Yoga<br />

Simple steps to a healthier<br />

body and a happier life<br />

n Drink three glasses of warm water every morning. After eight hours<br />

of sleep, the body craves water, so hydrate it. Water also aids with<br />

elimination.<br />

n Spend at least 30 minutes with yourself in the morning and before<br />

going to bed in silence. This allows one to self-reflect on actions and<br />

thoughts. In this process you tend to evolve into a better person by seeing<br />

where you need to get better.<br />

n Have a big bowl of oats for breakfast with nuts, fruit and honey. Oats<br />

help strengthen the digestive and nervous systems, while nuts and fresh<br />

fruit contain anti-oxidants that fight against many diseases, including<br />

cancer.<br />

n Drink a lot of water during the day. It helps in normalizing body<br />

weight and eliminating toxins accumulated in the body regularly.<br />

n Stretch and take short breaks at work. This releases accumulated<br />

muscular tension in the body, helping to avoid problems like back and<br />

neck pain.<br />

n Include lots of vegetables and whole-grain breads and rice in the diet.<br />

Fibre is an essential ingredient in the diet. It reduces constipation, and<br />

decreases the risk of diseases such as colon cancer, heart disease and<br />

diabetes.<br />

n Breathe deeply whenever you feel worry or panic. Deep breaths bring<br />

more oxygen to the brain. This allows one not to be overpowered by<br />

emotions.<br />

n Count to 50 whenever you are angry. Anger not only raises blood<br />

pressure, but causes damage to the cells and can lead to hypertension<br />

and heart problems. Counting to 50 gives you enough time to calm<br />

down.<br />

n Remember, love is the best medicine. When we really love someone,<br />

we want to give, give and give. Giving is joy. Giving creates utmost<br />

satisfaction. Pure, unconditional love creates pure thoughts and in turn<br />

nurtures a peaceful mind and a healthy body. This pure union between<br />

mind and body is yoga. p<br />

at the very least, not becoming victims to<br />

them.<br />

Bapooji’s message: There are three stages<br />

to the transformation where the mind<br />

and body are unified — physical healing,<br />

emotional healing and then the real union<br />

of body and mind.<br />

“Everyone has the power within to<br />

attain that level of peace, love and joy,”<br />

says Bapooji. “It’s about getting in touch<br />

with your soul. Detaching oneself from<br />

the mind and body so as to finally reach a<br />

true union of the two.”<br />

The essential principle of Sookshma<br />

Yoga is unconditional love, she adds.<br />

“Through love, I help people clear those<br />

negative layers and open up to a beautiful<br />

self.”<br />

She emphasizes that it’s not about<br />

meditating and performing yoga for 30<br />

minutes, then going home to play with<br />

your kids, cook a meal and fret over everyday<br />

situations.<br />

“Yoga is a way of life,” says Bapooji<br />

softly. “Yoga can help you cultivate a calm<br />

body, mind, and spiritual awareness.”<br />

As an added benefit, she says, “Sookshma<br />

is a natural anti-aging process because<br />

when your cells are in bliss and you have<br />

no stress, your skin glows with health.”<br />

Kollipara says he has personally experienced<br />

Bapooji’s healing powers. In fact,<br />

he believes so strongly in her approach he<br />

has given up his veterinary practice and<br />

founded the non-profit organization Peace<br />

Tree Innovations Society Center for Peace<br />

and Harmony. The centre promotes yoga,<br />

meditation and nutritional guidance as<br />

tools for creating health, wealth and inner<br />

peace in individuals, families and society.<br />

It’s all based on Bapooji’s teachings.<br />

“Bapooji clears all the emotional baggage<br />

we carry within us to calm down our<br />

minds, and she does this without ever<br />

touching you,” he says. Through chants,<br />

silence and “unexplained vibrations” she<br />

helps you focus on your inner self, says<br />

Kollipara.<br />

“Sunita believes that within our bodies<br />

we have the gross and subtle (or micro-<br />

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Suman Kollipara founded<br />

the non-profit organization<br />

Peace Tree Innovations Society Center<br />

for Peace and Harmony based on<br />

Sunita Bapooji’s teachings.<br />

scopic) body,” says Kollipara. “It is at that<br />

cellular or microscopic level where the<br />

root of our problems, diseases and disorders<br />

exists. Once that Sookshma energy is<br />

fixed, the physical anxiety and hypertension<br />

doesn’t take long to leave you.”<br />

People touched by her energy and<br />

presence claim to be healed from ailments<br />

such as diabetes, high blood pressure, early<br />

stages of cancer and various addictions.<br />

Deepa Soni, 28, says she suffered from<br />

the effects of Crohn’s Disease for more<br />

than two decades. In November 2008, a<br />

friend introduced her to Bapooji. From<br />

the first visit, says Deepa, she felt transformed.<br />

“Sunita gave and showed me my own<br />

willingness and made me aware of my<br />

true self. I felt strong, powerful and filled<br />

with an abundance of energy and happiness,”<br />

says Soni. “Nothing else seemed to<br />

matter any more. Not only was I on top<br />

of the world but others could also see my<br />

joyful bliss. This gave me the will to know<br />

that I could achieve anything.”<br />

More importantly, her disease seemed<br />

to disappear. Her doctors are baffled by<br />

her recovery, she says.<br />

“Going to Sunita has not only cured<br />

my Crohn’s but I feel there is more than<br />

that,” says Soni. “She balances emotions<br />

and stress. There is an overall justification<br />

of one’s self . . . we become in tune with<br />

positivity.”<br />

Bapooji stresses that we all have the<br />

power to heal ourselves with a little guidance.<br />

Like the guidance her father gave<br />

her so many years ago. She still loves to<br />

sing and has released a CD entitled Angeli,<br />

Songs from My Heart, a compilation<br />

of a dozen devotional songs and prayers.<br />

“My goal is to teach students how to<br />

give unconditional love. That is my life<br />

journey,” she says.<br />

Along the way, she’s bound to also<br />

teach a lot of people how to love yoga. p<br />

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Dev i n a Za l e s ky<br />

A SURVIVOR’S<br />

Dr i v e t o Re a ch<br />

t h e To p<br />

Devina Zalesky first discovered she was a survivor at just<br />

seven years old. Life had been happy and carefree in her<br />

small village of Nausori, Fiji, where her father ran the family<br />

rice plantation. Then one day a cyclone ripped through<br />

the town. Flood waters rose to the door of the family’s modest home,<br />

built on stilts four feet above the ground. Curious to see the wrath of<br />

the storm, Devina, a name that means divine, leaned out the door —<br />

and was swept straight into the deep water. All that was visible was<br />

her waist-length hair, floating on the surface of the water. In a bit of<br />

“divine” intervention, her father reached in, grabbed a fist-full of that<br />

hair and pulled her to safety, gasping and sputtering. His daughter<br />

survived, his farm did not.<br />

With no insurance and no money to rebuild,<br />

the family was devastated, wiped out. At one<br />

point, her father sold his only suit to buy food.<br />

A year later, with still no prospects for income,<br />

the family appealed to relatives in Canada to<br />

help them immigrate. In 1972, Devina, her<br />

parents and two brothers landed in Vancouver<br />

with their meagre belongings and hope for a<br />

new life. They lived with her mother’s brother<br />

for a year, then moved to a basement suite. Two<br />

By Robin Roberts<br />

years later, her parents bought their first home,<br />

in East Vancouver. It was a new beginning,<br />

but that new beginning was also a tremendous<br />

upheaval, and it took its toll on Devina’s<br />

parents. “We arrived in June, but with our<br />

first winter came the unrelenting rain, and it<br />

was very depressing for all of us,” remembers<br />

Devina, now 46. Her parents soon separated.<br />

Left to raise three kids alone, Devina’s mother<br />

worked two jobs. During the day, she laboured<br />

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“It really was sink or swim . . . I didn’t know what it meant when we were called<br />

Pakis or Punjabs or told to go back where we came from. It took a while to learn<br />

that this was being said in a mean, racist manner.”<br />

— Devina Zalesky<br />

at a plastics manufacturing firm. At night,<br />

she cleaned office buildings. Devina, at<br />

just 12, would often accompany her mom<br />

and help her clean the buildings at night.<br />

At 13, she had her own job, working at<br />

a malt shop. By 16, she was waitressing.<br />

Proving herself a reliable worker, despite<br />

her young age, Devina was entrusted<br />

with opening the restaurant for the day’s<br />

business. Weekday mornings at 6 o’clock,<br />

she would rise, make her younger brothers’<br />

breakfast and lunch, leave for the<br />

restaurant, where she would work until 8,<br />

go off to school, work a few more hours<br />

afterward, go home to help her mother<br />

with supper and other household chores,<br />

then fit in time for homework before<br />

falling into bed. It was a survivor’s mentality<br />

instilled out of necessity, to once<br />

again keep her head above water, if only<br />

figuratively this time. She knew that if<br />

she wanted that better life her family had<br />

travelled half-way around the world to<br />

find, it required hard work. “I guess I was<br />

determined I was not going to continue<br />

to live the life that I had lived,” Devina<br />

says simply.<br />

It wasn’t an easy integration, however.<br />

Devina and her brothers spoke very little<br />

English when they arrived in Vancouver.<br />

“Basically, I was dropped into school here<br />

in Grade 4 and learned English as I went<br />

along,” she says. “It really was sink or<br />

swim.” Then there was the bullying and<br />

teasing in the schoolyard. “I didn’t know<br />

what it meant when we were called Pakis<br />

or Punjabs,” she says, “or told to go back<br />

where we came from. It took a while to<br />

learn that this was being said in a mean,<br />

racist manner.”<br />

Devina says she coped because she<br />

was just so happy and thankful to be in<br />

Canada, and constantly praised then-<br />

Prime Minister Pierre Trudeau for passing<br />

the legislation that made their immigration<br />

possible.<br />

Today, Devina’s mother works at a<br />

pharmaceutical distributing firm, her<br />

younger brother Ro co-owns a beauty<br />

supply business. Devina is president of<br />

AllWest Insurance Services Ltd., where<br />

her younger brother works with her as<br />

an insurance broker. Devina’s dad lives<br />

with his new family in Alberta, and visits<br />

Devina often. “The first time he came<br />

to my home, his eyes welled up,” she<br />

remembers. “He couldn’t believe where<br />

I’d ended up.”<br />

am in awe of her,” says Devina’s husband,<br />

Paul Zalesky, as he looks fondly<br />

I<br />

at his wife. The two are seated in their<br />

sumptuous West Vancouver home, overlooking<br />

the ocean, a long, long way from<br />

“<br />

Eight-year-old Devina in Fiji with<br />

brothers Rohit (left) and Mohit before<br />

the family left for Canada.<br />

Fiji and the struggles of her younger life.<br />

“You see that with first-generation immigrants,<br />

the desire to just work and have<br />

something so much better. There’s such<br />

a tremendous appreciation for what we<br />

[who were born in Canada] have; new<br />

Canadians perceive it as a gift.” But that<br />

gift came at a price, as Devina’s struggles<br />

were far from over.<br />

At first, it seemed as though her<br />

hard work would reward her with the<br />

charmed life she so craved. Displaying<br />

an aptitude for business during her final<br />

year at Britannia Secondary School, her<br />

teacher, John Adams, suggested she work<br />

for his father, Frank Adams, who owned<br />

an insurance company. But she had her<br />

sights set higher: she wanted to be a flight<br />

attendant, to see more of the world.<br />

She even took night courses at BCIT<br />

in anticipation of her new high-flying<br />

career. Problem was, when PWA, the<br />

now-defunct airline she’d applied to, prepared<br />

to bond her, they discovered she<br />

was only 18 — far too young to work<br />

as a flight attendant. So, she followed<br />

her teacher’s advice, and went to work at<br />

Adams Insurance Group.<br />

“You noticed her when she walked<br />

into a room,” recalls her former teacher,<br />

John Adams. “She had a really bubbly,<br />

cheerleader, outgoing-type personality;<br />

she just looked like she had a lot on the<br />

ball. She stuck out in my mind as a real<br />

people person, and I thought she would<br />

do really well in anything dealing with<br />

people. So I suggested she go see my dad,<br />

and maybe join the family business.”<br />

Adams, who, along with his brothers,<br />

run the company now that their father<br />

has retired, says the young whip didn’t<br />

disappoint. Although, as an autoplan<br />

agent, the first order of business for the<br />

new hire was to learn to drive. “We had<br />

a fleet of stick shifts, and she didn’t know<br />

how to drive a standard, so I had to show<br />

her how,” says Adams, chuckling at the<br />

memory. Fortunately, “her work ethic<br />

is just outstanding,” he says, and she<br />

quickly caught on to the stick shift, and<br />

the business. So much so that, within a<br />

year, she had moved on. “We were disappointed<br />

when she left, but at the same<br />

time, we gave her our best. There’s lots<br />

of business out there for everybody. And<br />

she’s done a fantastic job [with AllWest<br />

Insurance]. Last time I saw her, I told her<br />

I was really proud of her, of what she’d<br />

accomplished.”<br />

Her ambition on overdrive, she was<br />

anxious to climb the corporate ladder.<br />

But Frank Adams had four sons, and<br />

Devina could see her odds of climbing<br />

too high would be blocked by a succession<br />

of heirs. So, in 1983, she approached<br />

Bill Verlaan at Coyle Insurance Agency,<br />

one of the largest autoplan agencies in<br />

British Columbia. “She came to see me<br />

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Devina Zalesky and her husband<br />

and sons celebrate her 25th anniversary<br />

with AllWest Insurance.<br />

“I nearly died. I realized<br />

in an instant how truly<br />

precious life is. I was<br />

afraid I would never see<br />

my sons again. I now<br />

value each day, and try to<br />

live it to its fullest.”<br />

— Devina Zalesky<br />

to ask if she could represent our agency,”<br />

recalls Verlaan, who bought out Coyle in<br />

1982, and changed the name to AllWest<br />

Insurance in 1984. “She looked to potentially<br />

be a very good worker, and she<br />

turned out to be the best worker I had.<br />

What set her apart was her attitude, her<br />

efficiency, her drive, her pleasant personality,<br />

her good looks — everything. She<br />

was exceptional to all the other employees.<br />

She had a drive that nobody had. I<br />

used her as an example with the other<br />

staff on the road, and they were jealous of<br />

her. She was making five times the money<br />

they were making. She was at it from<br />

morning to night, seven days a week. And<br />

she always went after the best of vehicles<br />

— the Mercedes, the Jaguars, the BMWs.<br />

She knew where the money was. She had<br />

ways about her of getting dealerships that<br />

nobody else could get.”<br />

Devina had joined the company without<br />

a car of her own, so Verlaan bought<br />

her a brand-new Toyota. Less than two<br />

years later, with a solid portfolio of “the<br />

best of vehicles,” she went to her boss<br />

with a proposition. “She was dealing<br />

with the Mercedes Benzes, the BMWs,<br />

the Jaguars,” says Verlaan, now retired<br />

and living in Kelowna. “Her little Toyota<br />

wasn’t quite up to par. So she asked for a<br />

monthly car allowance so she could buy<br />

herself a Mercedes — very smart on her<br />

part. So from then on in, she started driving<br />

Mercedes. That’s the type of girl she<br />

was; she always looked ahead.”<br />

Looking ahead to March 1986, she<br />

laid eyes on the suave and charming<br />

Paul Zalesky when she went to prepare<br />

a client’s insurance at luxury auto dealer<br />

MCL Motorcars, where Paul worked at<br />

the time. It was love at first sight. “We<br />

really liked each other’s style — hardworking,<br />

kind, honest and driven for<br />

success,” remembers Devina. One year<br />

later, they were engaged; six months after<br />

that, they were married in Maui on New<br />

Year’s Eve. A year after that, Paul joined<br />

his wife at AllWest. For the next few<br />

years, the dynamic duo lived an exciting,<br />

yet hard-driven, life. Devina worked 14<br />

hours a day, six days a week to achieve<br />

the very high bar she’d set for herself.<br />

Then, two tragedies, in the form of miscarriages,<br />

stopped them in their tracks.<br />

They began to re-evaluate their lives<br />

and where they were going. At the same<br />

time, their company went up for sale.<br />

On Valentine’s Day, 1992, they bought<br />

AllWest. Including themselves, the staff<br />

numbered 18. Today, AllWest is the largest<br />

independent autoplan agency in the<br />

province, encompassing two divisions,<br />

one in Vancouver, the other in North<br />

Vancouver, with a staff of over 200. Paul<br />

is CEO, Devina is president.<br />

In the midst of acquiring their company,<br />

Devina finally had a successful<br />

pregnancy with their first son, Stefan.<br />

Being a new mom, however, didn’t slow<br />

her down. She divided her time and<br />

focus between her growing family, which<br />

included another son, Mikhail, four years<br />

later, and her burgeoning business.<br />

“Of the 972 agencies in B.C., our<br />

Vancouver office is the largest, and our<br />

North Vancouver office is the second<br />

largest,” says Paul proudly. “And you<br />

can attribute that all to Devina and her<br />

focus. She’s always going the extra mile<br />

for someone. I remember a woman called<br />

at quarter to 10 one night, upset, saying<br />

her insurance had expired and she didn’t<br />

know what to do. Devina drove over<br />

and gave her a decal and the paperwork.<br />

Another time, a woman called to say her<br />

house was on fire. She had four Japanese<br />

exchange students living in her basement,<br />

and somehow the power cords for their<br />

computers got tangled up and started<br />

the fire. Devina and I, as well as our two<br />

sons, jumped in the car and went to her.<br />

We got her and her students set up in a<br />

hotel, calmed them, and reassured them<br />

an adjuster would be over in the morning.<br />

People are always so astonished and<br />

impressed that Devina would make the<br />

effort to do that. If you’ve got the ability<br />

to help, then you do it. You can’t turn a<br />

blind eye in an emotional moment. And<br />

that’s been our company motto: always go<br />

the extra mile, always care, whether it be<br />

for a corporation, an individual, or a family.<br />

Whatever Devina can do to help, she’s<br />

done. Even when the staff have a personal<br />

problem, they’ll call her before they’ll call<br />

their parents.”<br />

Paul and Devina’s assistant, and the<br />

company’s manager of corporate relations,<br />

Dana Voynovich, concurs. “Devina’s a<br />

very generous individual. When she started,<br />

she didn’t have much, and she draws<br />

her strength from that. When she sees<br />

people struggling, she’s willing to extend a<br />

helping hand. I consider them my friends<br />

as well as my employers. They treat me<br />

well and I treat them well; we have a<br />

good relationship. We’ve been for dinner,<br />

we’ve vacationed together. But when I’m<br />

here, I’m here to work, I have a job to do,<br />

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and they recognize that. When we’re not<br />

working, we can have a great time, kick<br />

off the heels kind of thing.”<br />

Voynovich says she’s tried to get her<br />

boss to take the occasional time out, with<br />

varying success. “Devina integrates herself<br />

fully into the company, and that’s because<br />

it’s something she’s worked very hard at.<br />

You can’t just completely relinquish the<br />

reins and sit back and feel relaxed. That’s<br />

part of who she is. If it’s stressful, though,<br />

I’ll tell her to shut the Berry off. Yeah,<br />

that’ll last for about two seconds. Then<br />

her little fingers will inch over and she’ll<br />

push it back on!”<br />

As picture-perfect as the Zaleskys’ lives<br />

were, however, they were not immune<br />

to more misfortune. In 2004, Devina<br />

survived her second brush with death.<br />

While vacationing in Italy, she was sitting<br />

on the window sill of her hotel. The<br />

windows were wide open, as the couple<br />

tried to catch a breeze in the 34-degree<br />

evening heat. She lost her balance, fell<br />

and impaled herself on a small potted<br />

palm tree below. She was emergency airlifted<br />

to a hospital in Zurich, Switzerland,<br />

suffering from internal bleeding, a concussion,<br />

severed carotid artery, fractured<br />

clavicle, ribs and coccyx, and lacerated<br />

liver. She underwent surgery, spent a<br />

week in intensive care, then another week<br />

in a recovery ward. The bill: $285,000<br />

US. “A testament to good travel insurance,”<br />

says Paul, wryly.<br />

To Devina, it was a life-altering experience.<br />

“I nearly died,” she says. “I realized<br />

in an instant how truly precious life is.<br />

I was afraid I would never see my sons<br />

again. I now value each day, and try to<br />

live it to its fullest.”<br />

Then, in November 2007, yet another<br />

blow. While working out at the gym,<br />

Devina found she didn’t have her usual<br />

energy. She hadn’t been feeling quite<br />

right, and was grappling with a persistent<br />

cough. She went to her doctor, who sent<br />

her for tests, including a mammogram.<br />

“They found a lump,” she says solemnly.<br />

She had routinely done her own breast<br />

exams, as had her doctor. Neither discovered<br />

the lump. She remembers very<br />

clearly the day she was given the news.<br />

“It was January 17, 2008. I was driving<br />

home from the doctor’s office, crying, not<br />

thinking clearly. I was in shock. I must<br />

have been driving erratically, as I was<br />

reaching for tissues, trying to see through<br />

my tears. A police officer pulled me over.<br />

When he saw me, he asked what was<br />

wrong. I told him, and he hugged me. He<br />

even offered to drive me home.”<br />

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Cover<br />

Top: Devina and Paul Zalesky with<br />

actor Robin Williams. Middle:<br />

The Zaleskys with hockey legend Wayne<br />

Gretzky. Bottom: Devina with former<br />

U.S. president Bill Clinton.<br />

Making a Difference<br />

Devina Zalesky’s face is often found<br />

smiling back from the society pages<br />

of newspapers and magazines, as<br />

she hosts and attends fundraisers in<br />

support of charities such as UNICEF,<br />

Easter Seals, Child Find BC, Make a<br />

Wish Foundation, Zajac Foundation,<br />

B.C. Children’s Hospital, Lions Gate<br />

and St. Paul’s Hospital Foundations,<br />

and the United Way, among many<br />

others. As a breast cancer survivor,<br />

the Canadian and B.C. Cancer<br />

Agencies hold a special place in<br />

her heart. For information on the<br />

next Weekend to End Breast Cancer,<br />

which takes place August 15 and 16,<br />

go to bccancer.bc.ca.<br />

If you’re a woman over 40 with<br />

or without a family history of breast<br />

cancer, Zalesky’s advice is to get a<br />

mammogram. Find a screening office<br />

near you at www.bccancer.bc.ca. p<br />

one of her first thoughts was that she<br />

would beat it. “I told myself I would get<br />

through this no matter what,” she recalls.<br />

“I would see my sons graduate and get<br />

married.”<br />

She underwent her first surgery, a<br />

lumpectomy, two months later, followed<br />

by radiation therapy. Then she had a<br />

second surgery to remove some lymph<br />

nodes, to be on the safe side. This<br />

was followed by a course of anti-cancer<br />

drugs called Tamoxifen, which triggered<br />

a severe allergy. Those were traded for<br />

a different drug, via injections, once a<br />

month, directly into her ovaries. The<br />

pain was excruciating, and her reaction<br />

adverse, once again. “Now I’m just going<br />

to get my ovaries removed,” she says, with<br />

resignation. Removing the ovaries stops<br />

production of estrogen, which reduces<br />

the risk for a potential recurrence of the<br />

cancer. That procedure is scheduled for<br />

June, and her prognosis looks good. She’s<br />

survived again.<br />

Reflecting on a very challenging year,<br />

Devina says if there’s one thing she<br />

knows now that she wishes she’d known<br />

then, it’s the importance of a mammogram.<br />

“There was no history of cancer in<br />

my family, on either side,” she says. “You<br />

hear about it, but you never think it’s<br />

going to happen to you. I wish I’d gotten<br />

a mammogram earlier. I tell everyone<br />

over 40 to get one.”<br />

Always a close couple, the diagnosis<br />

has brought Paul and Devina even closer.<br />

“When I gave him the news, he told me<br />

to be strong, that he loved me more than<br />

anything. He is my rock,” she says of her<br />

husband, who stayed up late most nights,<br />

researching all he could about breast<br />

cancer, and her treatment options. Last<br />

year, he participated in the BC Cancer<br />

Foundation’s two-day, 60-km Weekend<br />

to End Breast Cancer in his wife’s honour,<br />

raising over $50,000. It was the largest<br />

individual donation that year.<br />

Today, Devina’s cut back on work,<br />

but just marginally — from 70-80 hours<br />

a week, to 65-70 hours a week. The joy<br />

she still derives from her business keeps<br />

her distracted, she says. “You don’t want<br />

to think about it,” she says of the cancer.<br />

“The more active you are, the better you<br />

are. Certain days you’re down because<br />

of all the medication, what your body’s<br />

going through.”<br />

Dana Voynovich says, while many<br />

people take the “less you know, less you’re<br />

scared” approach to such a diagnosis,<br />

Devina has been the opposite. “She armed<br />

herself with a lot of information. She<br />

took the bull by the horns, which is the<br />

way she is anyway, so it doesn’t surprise<br />

me. There are times, I’m sure, when she<br />

was at home and felt very alone and<br />

very sad. But you didn’t see a lot of that<br />

when she was at the office or anywhere<br />

else. She just kept very busy, which was<br />

not difficult for her.” Voynovich admits<br />

her jaw dropped when her boss told her<br />

the news. “I was shocked. I had a panic<br />

attack and everything went woozy. It<br />

hit too close to home. It starts to make<br />

you think, all the things you used to be<br />

worried about, the colour of your car, the<br />

drapes in the living room. None of it is<br />

important; it doesn’t matter.”<br />

While Devina and Paul have travelled<br />

extensively — their home is filled with<br />

huge paintings, sculptures and statues<br />

of Asian and Indonesian art, as well as<br />

a massive, century-old royal kimono<br />

under glass, brought back from their<br />

trips — there are still many destinations<br />

on their must-see list. One of those is<br />

India, the homeland of Devina’s grandparents<br />

before they sailed to Fiji to work<br />

the sugar canes. Although they both<br />

died when she was very young, Devina<br />

would like to some day make a pilgrimage<br />

to see their roots, around Madras,<br />

and to ensure her sons know their heritage.<br />

They already have a head start:<br />

Offspring of two ethnicities — Paul’s<br />

Russian/Ukrainian — Stefan, now 19,<br />

and Mikhail, 15, consider themselves<br />

first and foremost brown. They even<br />

attend Diwali, and understand a bit of<br />

Hindi, since Devina and her mother have<br />

spoken to them in the language from the<br />

time they were babies.<br />

For now, however, the Zaleskys’<br />

excursions will be a little closer to home.<br />

Devina recently added a long-coveted<br />

pet project to her list of distractions.<br />

“I’ve always wanted to buy a place in<br />

Palm Springs,” she says, “and when I was<br />

diagnosed, we went down in March and<br />

bought a place. We gutted it, redesigned<br />

it, did the whole interior decorating. I<br />

love spending a lot of time there in the<br />

desert. It uplifts my spirits each and every<br />

morning when I wake up.”<br />

Today, however, Devina gazes out at<br />

a spring storm gathering over the grey<br />

Pacific. Somewhere on the other side of<br />

that rolling ocean, thousands of miles<br />

and a lifetime away, is Fiji. Where she<br />

first learned to survive. p<br />

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The old adage “mother knows<br />

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Gill. When Lakhbir’s mother met<br />

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From the moment they first<br />

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Manraj Lalli. When he noticed<br />

her sitting in the library of the<br />

University College of the Fraser<br />

Valley, he didn’t hesitate to walk<br />

over and strike up a conversation.<br />

“I told her my name was Raj,”<br />

he recalls. “When I asked for her<br />

name, she said her name was<br />

Manraj. ‘So is mine,’ I replied.<br />

She giggled and said, ‘Yeah, sure<br />

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with her, and before she could<br />

reply I moved her books and took<br />

a seat.”<br />

They began dating soon after<br />

and within six months knew they<br />

were headed for marriage.<br />

“We had talked about our<br />

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goals. Once we discovered that<br />

we were on the same wavelength,<br />

it was the natural next step,”<br />

she says. When it was time to<br />

propose, Raj decided to take<br />

advantage of the pyrotechnic<br />

spectacle of the Celebration<br />

of Lights. “We picked out a<br />

beautiful spot on the beach,” he<br />

recalls. “I asked her to go grab<br />

some mini-doughnuts to share.<br />

When she came back and sat<br />

down it was about a minute or<br />

two before the fireworks began.<br />

I pulled out the box and said, ‘I<br />

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always?’ She smiled, cried, and<br />

said she would. I opened the<br />

box . . . and there was no ring.<br />

She was shocked, exclaiming,<br />

“Give me my ring, honeyhomez!’<br />

I told her that she’s had it for<br />

over two years and that it’s in her<br />

purse! I pulled it out and she put<br />

it on while the fireworks were<br />

brightening the heavens above<br />

us. We shared a big laugh. It was<br />

very memorable.”<br />

The wedding planning went<br />

in characteristically smooth<br />

fashion for the happy couple.<br />

Even finding the perfect outfit<br />

for the marriage was a breeze<br />

for the bride-to-be. “We found<br />

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first one I tried on. That seemed<br />

to be the theme for most of our<br />

planning. Things fell into place.<br />

It felt like the year went by very<br />

quickly. I tried to cherish all the<br />

special moments of still living<br />

at home with my parents and<br />

siblings. I remember on several<br />

occasions during the year,<br />

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September<br />

2008<br />

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from now on.’”<br />

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“I remember sitting in the<br />

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Weddings<br />

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Mitasha Paintal from Mumbai, India<br />

Vik Samra knew he had a<br />

special connection with Mitasha<br />

Paintal ever since they first<br />

met during an acting class in<br />

Mumbai. He discovered just<br />

how strong that connection was<br />

when, three weeks after saying<br />

goodbye to her in Mumbai and<br />

returning to his home in Canada,<br />

he realized he was ready to make<br />

a lifelong commitment.<br />

Mitasha was used to receiving<br />

a daily call from Vik, but had<br />

no idea what was coming. “He<br />

asked if I was sitting and was<br />

comfortable, which I felt was<br />

quite strange to ask,” she recalls.<br />

“After I told him I was seated,<br />

he popped the question. Good<br />

thing I was seated because I did<br />

almost fall. He asked if I was<br />

ready to marry him and move to<br />

Canada with him. I had no idea<br />

it would happen so suddenly. I<br />

hadn’t expected it at all, so my<br />

happiness knew no bounds.”<br />

Although the spontaneous<br />

proposal was a surprise, taking<br />

their relationship from friendship<br />

to the next level felt completely<br />

natural. “We started off by being<br />

friends, but we always knew<br />

In our hearts that it was in fact<br />

much more than just plain good<br />

old friendship,” says Vik. “The<br />

chemistry was far too much to be<br />

labelled as friendship.”<br />

Since the wedding was to be<br />

held in Mumbai, Mitasha took<br />

charge of the planning. “It was<br />

very exciting, because I wanted<br />

everything to be perfect,” she<br />

says. “All the preparations I made<br />

were done totally from my heart<br />

because, in a way, everything was<br />

going to be a surprise for Vik and<br />

I wanted everything to be at least<br />

at par with his expectations if not<br />

over.”<br />

Mitasha, a freelance fashion<br />

designer, also took charge of<br />

creating marriage outfits for both<br />

herself and her groom. “In one<br />

day I was able to take care of<br />

it because my inspiration was<br />

the fabrics I saw in the shop I<br />

generally buy from. I was very<br />

clear that I wanted to wear blue<br />

and red, and everything matched<br />

out very well.”<br />

The bride and groom arrived<br />

at their reception venue ahead<br />

March<br />

2009<br />

of their 200<br />

guests and opted<br />

for a celebration<br />

that emphasized<br />

mingling over<br />

presentations. “We<br />

had no podium,<br />

no stage,” says<br />

Mitasha. “It was<br />

very interpersonal<br />

and we got a<br />

chance to meet and<br />

mingle with every<br />

single guest. We<br />

were sometimes<br />

standing together and sometimes<br />

spending quality time with our<br />

school friends or close family.”<br />

“We were very comfortable and<br />

able to be ourselves because we<br />

knew everyone there,” says Vik.<br />

“I think every moment spent with<br />

our close ones was very special<br />

because in our hearts we knew<br />

they were all our well-wishers<br />

and truly happy for us. The vibe<br />

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very upbeat, happy and genuine.<br />

People we grew up with, people<br />

who have been there for us,<br />

people who matter were all there<br />

to celebrate and dance with us.”<br />

The newlyweds say common<br />

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their bond strong. “We share<br />

similar dreams, aspirations and<br />

the desire to understand, love<br />

and support one another, which<br />

always keeps us mentally and<br />

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“We also believe that we<br />

largely bond on a spiritual level<br />

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Beauty<br />

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shine serum with an equally small amount of<br />

volumizing product and then run it through<br />

damp hair.<br />

If you’re planning to flat-iron your hair,<br />

don’t even think about doing it without<br />

thoroughly blow-drying hair first or else you<br />

risk frying your crowning glory. Before you<br />

reach for the flat-iron (or any other high-temp<br />

tool, for that matter), always use a product designed<br />

to protect precious strands from heat.<br />

Speaking of blow-drying, here’s a tip<br />

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before you begin blow-drying because it’ll<br />

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by Gurj Dhaliwal<br />

BBQ Red Alert<br />

Don’t let the rain put a damper on barbecue<br />

season. I say fire up those coals whatever the<br />

weather and become a true grill master.<br />

Grilling fish on an open flame can be<br />

intimidating for the average Joe, but here<br />

are a few expert tips that will keep you from<br />

brushing the juicy flavours away.<br />

First: Start with a clean grill that has been<br />

fully pre-heated. If you don’t hear the sizzle,<br />

then it’s not hot enough!<br />

Second: Using a paper towel and<br />

vegetable oil, lube up the grilling surface and<br />

add a touch of oil to the fish.<br />

Third. Season your fish on both sides and<br />

don’t fuss with it when you go to flip it. The<br />

fish will pull away from the grill easily.<br />

Dust off those oven mitts, sharpen the tools<br />

and wash your “Kiss the Cook” apron because<br />

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Coriander Crusted Halibut<br />

with Purple Potato Hash and Tamarind Emulsion (serves 2)<br />

Halibut<br />

2 to 5 ounces halibut fillets<br />

2 tsps. ground coriander<br />

2 tsps. chopped fresh cilantro<br />

1 tbsp. vegetable oil<br />

Purple Potato Hash<br />

8 small purple potatoes,<br />

blanched and sliced<br />

2 slices smoked bacon diced<br />

1/2 cup green peas<br />

2 shallots sliced<br />

Tamarind Emulsion<br />

1/2 cup tamarind paste<br />

4 tbsp. olive oil<br />

2 tbsps. water<br />

1 tbsp. red wine vinegar<br />

1 tbsp. brown sugar<br />

salt<br />

black pepper<br />

Tamarind Emulsion: Begin by making the<br />

tamarind emulsion in a blender. Mix together the<br />

tamarind paste, olive oil, water, red wine vinegar<br />

and brown sugar on high speed for 2 minutes.<br />

Season to taste with salt and pepper.<br />

Potato Hash: To start the hash, begin by frying<br />

bacon over medium heat in a heavy-bottom pan<br />

until crispy, then add the sliced and blanched<br />

potatoes and cook for about 5 minutes.<br />

Add the shallots and sauté for 3 minutes. Then<br />

add the green peas and cook for 5 minutes. When<br />

finished cooking, season with salt and pepper.<br />

Halibut Fillets: To cook the halibut fillets,<br />

heat a heavy-bottom pan or a grill over medium<br />

heat and add the vegetable oil. Lightly dust both<br />

sides of the fish with the ground coriander and<br />

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Health & Fitness<br />

by Shefali Raja, BSc., RD Community Nutritionist<br />

Healthy Skin<br />

As the weather heats up, the summer wardrobe comes out and having<br />

glowing, radiant skin is on everyone’s mind. The eyes may<br />

be the windows to the soul, as the saying goes, but the skin is a<br />

window to inner health. The skin is the largest organ in the body. While<br />

numerous factors negatively affect skin — including exposure to sun<br />

or a dry environment, inadequate fluids, smoking, poor eating habits,<br />

pollution or other contact substances, allergens, hormonal changes, a<br />

sedentary lifestyle, stress, aging, and genetics — nutrition plays a vital<br />

role in protecting skin and addressing the health issues that it reflects,<br />

from eczema to acne to aging. Improving overall digestion, hydrating<br />

your body and flooding your system with high-antioxidant foods can<br />

transform the way your skin appears. Vitamins and minerals in all forms<br />

play an integral role whether the source is food, supplements or even a<br />

jar of cream.<br />

Vitamins and Minerals<br />

Vitamins C and E help by reducing the<br />

damage caused by free radicals, a harmful<br />

byproduct of sunlight, smoke, and pollution.<br />

Free radicals gobble up collagen<br />

and elastin, the fibers that support skin<br />

structure, causing wrinkles and other<br />

signs of aging. Topical Vitamin C can prevent<br />

the consequences of prolonged sun<br />

exposure which can lead to skin cancer.<br />

Supplementation with natural vitamin E<br />

has been noted to reduce photo damage,<br />

wrinkles and improve skin texture.<br />

Vitamin C rich foods include citrus<br />

fruits and vegetables such as bell peppers,<br />

broccoli, cauliflower, leafy greens,<br />

oranges, strawberries and kiwi. You can<br />

also take vitamin C supplements 500 to<br />

1,000 milligrams of per day. Additionally<br />

you may want to try a topical vitamin C<br />

cream to encourage collagen production,<br />

just as your body does naturally when you<br />

are young. The trick here is to use a formulation<br />

containing the L-ascorbic acid<br />

form of vitamin C, the only one that can<br />

penetrate skin layers and do the job.<br />

Vitamin E is found in vegetable oils,<br />

nuts, seeds, wheat germ, avocadoes, green<br />

leafy vegetables. But it’s difficult to get<br />

a lot from food; a supplement with 400<br />

international units or less per day is safe<br />

to take. Topical vitamin E called alphatocopherol<br />

in cream, lotion, or serum can<br />

soothe dry, rough skin.<br />

Beta carotene is converted into vitamin<br />

A in the body; vitamin A is important in<br />

the maintenance and repair of skin tissue.<br />

If you’re eating a high amount of vegetables<br />

and fruits daily your beta carotene<br />

levels are likely good; otherwise you may<br />

notice skin-related symptoms, including a<br />

dry, flaky complexion.<br />

Rich sources of Beta carotene include<br />

foods such as sweet potatoes, pumpkins,<br />

carrots, mangoes and apricots.<br />

Topical vitamin A through creams is the<br />

form that makes a real difference in your<br />

skin by reducing lines and wrinkles and<br />

providing good acne control. The prescription<br />

treatment for acne is called Retin-A<br />

is derived from vitamin A. The less<br />

potent, over-the-counter formulations<br />

are sold as retinols and used as anti-aging<br />

treatments.<br />

B Vitamins such as biotin and niacin<br />

have a big role to play as biotin forms the<br />

basis of skin, nail, and hair cells. Without<br />

adequate amounts, you may end up with<br />

dermatitis (an itchy, scaly skin reaction)<br />

or sometimes even hair loss. Even a mild<br />

deficiency causes symptoms. Most people<br />

get enough biotin without even trying. It’s<br />

found in many foods including bananas,<br />

eggs, oatmeal, and rice, plus your body<br />

also makes some biotin on its own. Niacin<br />

helps skin retain moisture, so creams<br />

containing this nutrient can help your<br />

complexion look plumper and younger in<br />

as little as six days. Niacin also has antiinflammatory<br />

properties to soothe dry,<br />

irritated skin. In higher concentrations<br />

it can also work as a lightening agent to<br />

even out blotchy skin tone.<br />

Vitamin K is the nutrient responsible<br />

for helping blood clot. Topical vitamin K<br />

works well to reduce circles under the eye<br />

as well as bruises. When combined with<br />

vitamin A in a cream, vitamin K can be<br />

even more effective for those dark circles.<br />

Selenium has been shown to play a key<br />

role in skin cancer prevention. Fifty to<br />

200 micrograms in supplement form or<br />

used in a cream, this mineral helps protect<br />

skin from sun damage. The best dietary<br />

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sources of selenium include whole-grain<br />

cereals, seafood, garlic, and eggs.<br />

Zinc deficiency can be the cause of<br />

acne. Taken internally or used topically,<br />

zinc works to clear skin by slowing<br />

down oil production and may be effective<br />

in controlling the formation of acne<br />

lesions or help those already on your<br />

skin to clear sooner. Food sources of zinc<br />

include oysters, lean meat, poultry, egg<br />

yolks and pecans.<br />

Beyond Vitamins and Minerals<br />

Some of the more exciting new skin<br />

research looks beyond vitamins and<br />

minerals to other nutrients that when<br />

taken internally or applied topically can<br />

have remarkable effects on your skin.<br />

Alpha-Lipoic Acid is a powerful antioxidant<br />

that helps neutralize skin cell<br />

damage caused by free radicals much<br />

like vitamin C or E but is hundreds of<br />

times more potent. It has the ability to<br />

penetrate both oil and water, affecting<br />

skin cells from both the inside and the<br />

outside of the body. Most other antioxidants<br />

can do one but not both. Alphalipoic<br />

acid is available in supplements or<br />

in creams.<br />

Essential Fatty Acids (EFAs) help<br />

maintain cell membranes so that they<br />

are effective barriers—allowing water<br />

and nutrients in, and keeping toxins<br />

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most of us get plenty of omega-<br />

6s (baked goods, cooking oils, poultry,<br />

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enough omega-3s (cold-water fish, including<br />

salmon, sardines, and mackerel,<br />

flaxseed, and flax oil, walnuts, Canola<br />

and Soy oils). If your skin is dry, prone<br />

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supplements, such as fish oil capsules<br />

(select ones that are distilled, enteric<br />

coated and made from smaller fish<br />

such as anchovies and sardines) or evening<br />

primrose oil, may also contribute<br />

to smoother and younger-looking skin.<br />

The Bottom Line<br />

Although most people can get all the<br />

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Don’t forget to hydrate your skin by<br />

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Shifting Gears<br />

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wheel mounted paddle gear shifters,<br />

a navigation system, bluetooth connectivity,<br />

USB interface and stability control.<br />

The Insight Hybrid is powered by a<br />

1.3-litre, 88 horsepower four-cylinder<br />

gasoline engine and an electric motor producing<br />

13 hp. As a reminder the hybrid<br />

engine and motor can operate simultaneously<br />

or independently of each other and<br />

together produce 98 hp and 123 poundfeet<br />

of torque. The motor is powered by a<br />

battery located under the cargo floor that<br />

is also charged by regenerative braking so<br />

each time you use the brakes power is produced<br />

and stored in the battery.<br />

Yet another reminder of how the<br />

Hybrid system works: At the stoplight,<br />

or when you stop, the engine shuts<br />

down automatically and all the car’s<br />

systems switch to battery power. Put<br />

your foot on the gas pedal and the gasoline<br />

engine starts up seamlessly. In fact, after a<br />

while the unusual silence when the engine<br />

shuts down is not even noticed. The result<br />

is amazing fuel economy. Honda estimates<br />

4.8/4.5 L/100 km city/highway (4.7 combined)<br />

and there is an “Eco” button on<br />

the dash that increases fuel even more by<br />

adjusting throttle, transmission, air conditioning,<br />

cruise control, engine assist and<br />

regenerative braking parameters. All this<br />

work is done by the ingenious on-board<br />

computers.<br />

The Honda Insight’s remarkable systems<br />

also helps boost your efficiency<br />

and monitor your own driving habits to<br />

maximize your fuel mileage for your driving<br />

conditions. The system also features<br />

a real-time feedback system to help promote<br />

driver awareness of efficient driving<br />

habits on a daily basis.<br />

Jerry Chenkin, executive vice-president<br />

of Honda Canada said in a recent<br />

press statement, “The Honda Insight<br />

is designed to bring hybrid technology<br />

within closer reach for many new car buyers<br />

in Canada with its affordable pricing.<br />

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sense with higher fuel efficiency<br />

and lower emissions, hybrid technology<br />

is now entering an era where it can also<br />

make financial sense for a broader range<br />

of customers.”<br />

Honda hopes to sell 5,000 Insight Hybrids<br />

a year in Canada. And this is certainly<br />

a realistic figure. With gas prices set<br />

to go even higher in the next few years<br />

Honda is serious about doing its bit for<br />

the planet and this car has its full green<br />

credentials. p<br />

70 Mehfil May/June 2009


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Shifting Gears<br />

2009 Hyundai Genesis<br />

Hi-Performance from Hyundai<br />

The 2009 Hyundai Genesis is the<br />

Korean company’s first rear-wheel<br />

drive hi-performance sedan. And what<br />

better way for Hyundai to celebrate its<br />

25th year in Canada than for the Genesis<br />

to walk home with not one, but two of<br />

North America’s most prestigious Auto<br />

awards. Not only did the Genesis bag the<br />

coveted 2009 North American Car of the<br />

Year (NACOTY) Award, decided by 50<br />

automotive journalists from Canada and<br />

the US, the Genesis was also named 2009<br />

Canadian Car of the Year (COY) and<br />

Best New Luxury Car Under $50,000 by<br />

the Automobile Journalists Association of<br />

Canada (AJAC).<br />

It is incredible how in just a few years<br />

Hyundai has moved up in the automotive<br />

league. Back to the Genesis, this midsized<br />

rear-wheel drive sedan seats five and<br />

is offered with either a V6 or V8 engine. It<br />

is a sleek, slightly Germanic looking design<br />

with a hint of Mercedes about the<br />

front grille and a touch of BMW 5- Series<br />

around the rear trunk. Odd, but Hyundai<br />

logo on the front grille? However if the<br />

looks don’t wow you, the specs will as the<br />

Genesis offers the features, comfort and<br />

performance comparable with fearsome<br />

competitors such as the Lexus GS, Mercedes-Benz<br />

E-Class and BMW 5 Series,<br />

but at a amazingly lower price. Not only<br />

that, Hyundai’s first ever V8, a 4.6-litre,<br />

375 horsepower unit is on offer as well<br />

as the base 290-horsepower 3.8-litre V6<br />

which Hyundai claims can motivate the<br />

Genesis from zero to 60 mph in 5.7 seconds<br />

– quite impressive.<br />

Interior<br />

The sumptuous dark brown leather<br />

seats and interior trim of the V6 Genesis<br />

made me feel like I was in an English<br />

Gentleman’s club – very plush. And features<br />

abound, from the tilt and telescopic<br />

steering wheel that moves to allow more<br />

room when the driver opens the door to<br />

keyless entry, a push-button start, cool<br />

electroluminescent gauges, front seats<br />

that are both heated and cooled and have<br />

an electronic active head restraints.<br />

The hefty, perfectly weighted leather<br />

steering with its stylish controls for the<br />

audio and cruise-control systems is also<br />

very cool! A mouse-like rotating knob<br />

surrounded by six switches sits in the<br />

middle of the console and controls systems<br />

such as audio, navigation, the heat/<br />

ventilation and the multimedia interface.<br />

The optional hi-end Lexicon 7.1 surround<br />

sound audio system, a 528-watt,<br />

17-speaker system, is apparently offered<br />

on only one other vehicle…the Rolls-<br />

Royce Phantom.<br />

Other superb touches include highgloss<br />

wood inlay sections with leather<br />

and lots of chrome trim around the dash,<br />

center console and doors. All the seats<br />

are excellent with plenty of support and<br />

comfort; in fact the room in this car is<br />

very good in all quarters. Ample enough<br />

for two big adults or three medium sized<br />

people in the rear. No compromises on<br />

headroom or legroom either. And you<br />

are also well protected, as the Genesis<br />

72 Mehfil May/June 2009


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74 Mehfil May/June 2009


Horoscope<br />

by Georgia Nicols<br />

June 2009<br />

Aries (March 21-April 19)<br />

This is a busy, fun month! Both<br />

Venus and Mars continue to be in<br />

Aries. Venus makes you gracious,<br />

charming and attractive to others.<br />

(Kiss, kiss, hug, hug.) By contrast,<br />

Mars makes you assertive, bold<br />

and sexy! You’re quick to defend<br />

your rights. One influence does<br />

not negate the other. They work<br />

in tandem. Therefore, during this<br />

busy month of short trips, errands,<br />

and increased reading and writing,<br />

you’ll tell someone off, and then<br />

(voila!) instantly woo them back<br />

into your good graces.<br />

Taurus (April 20-May 20)<br />

You’re into possessions, earnings,<br />

major expenditures and<br />

cash flow. Basically, you’re giving<br />

thought to what you value. Well,<br />

we know what you value: you like<br />

good food, good wine, good sex<br />

and a nice place to live! (Every<br />

time I tell this to a Taurus, they say,<br />

“Doesn’t everyone?”) The reason<br />

you’re focused on possessions,<br />

is you’re deciding what you need<br />

versus what’s just baggage. Secret<br />

love affairs and exciting trysts are<br />

compelling.<br />

Gemini (May 21-June 20)<br />

It’s your turn to recharge your<br />

batteries for the rest of the year.<br />

With the Sun in your sign, you’re<br />

empowered, confident and enthusiastic<br />

about life. This month you<br />

attract opportunities and people to<br />

you. It’s appropriate to put yourself<br />

first now. (After all, it’s all about<br />

you!) You have a strong need to<br />

express yourself to others right<br />

now. Since it’s the beginning of<br />

your new personal year (birthday<br />

to birthday) ask yourself what you<br />

want to achieve this year?<br />

Cancer (June 21-July 22)<br />

Your birthday is a month away,<br />

making this the perfect time to<br />

ponder how your life is unfolding.<br />

How well are you doing at the art of<br />

living? Look back over your shoulder<br />

at this last year. What pleases<br />

you? Do you wish things were different?<br />

With Venus and Mars at<br />

high noon in your chart, bosses,<br />

parents, teachers and VIPs are<br />

prepared to help you. (The early<br />

bird gets more than just the stale<br />

coffee.) Romance with a teacher,<br />

boss or someone older or richer<br />

is likely.<br />

Leo (July 23-Aug. 22)<br />

This is a wonderful month to<br />

enjoy friends, acquaintances,<br />

clubs, groups and organizations<br />

— plus think about your longterm<br />

dreams for the future. Share<br />

these ideas with others. Their input<br />

will cause you to tweak your goals.<br />

Travel and educational plans are<br />

promising. Ditto for opportunities<br />

with publishing, the media, medicine<br />

and the law. Relations with<br />

partners continue to be cozy. But,<br />

do get your rest. It’s party city, and<br />

you’re writing cheques your body<br />

can’t cash!<br />

Virgo (Aug. 23-Sept. 22)<br />

Everyone notices you, especially<br />

parents, bosses, teachers<br />

and VIPs. (Take note — this also<br />

includes the police.) Your high viz.<br />

position commands respect. Why<br />

not make the most of this and go<br />

for baroque. (Gild the lily.) You feel<br />

sexy, sensuous and passionate. Intimacy<br />

is transcendent — the stuff<br />

of movies and soul mates. Money,<br />

favours and perks can come to you<br />

now. You benefit from others! Allow<br />

extra time for travel, education and<br />

publishing because here is where<br />

you encounter delays. Oy vey.<br />

Libra (Sept. 23-Oct. 22)<br />

It’s time to get outta Dodge. You<br />

want a change of scenery; and a<br />

chance to learn something new<br />

and exciting. You need to seek<br />

a fuller, more enriched life. Go<br />

someplace new. Explore fresh turf.<br />

But be extra patient with partners<br />

and close friends because Mars<br />

is opposite you. Fortunately, fair<br />

Venus is there to soften the blow,<br />

make amends and repair bruised<br />

feelings. Since this year is your<br />

chance to party and enjoy yourself<br />

— grab the baton and run with it!<br />

Scorpio (Oct. 23-Nov. 21)<br />

You’re intense and passionate<br />

this month. You either love<br />

something or you hate it. You’re<br />

dealing with shared property, debt,<br />

taxes, insurance matters and inheritances.<br />

You’re also on a diet;<br />

working out; and buying self-help<br />

books. Buff that bod. (This sunny<br />

weather is the time to show some<br />

skin — not flab. Aaagggh!) Expartners<br />

demand lots of attention.<br />

Fortunately, you’re super charged<br />

at work, and this is where coworkers<br />

are supportive. Seek rewards<br />

from your work. (Sigh.)<br />

Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21)<br />

This is the only time all year<br />

when the Sun is opposite your<br />

sign. This means you need more<br />

sleep. (The Sun is your energy,<br />

and as far way is it can get all year.<br />

This opposition of the Sun also<br />

focuses your attention on partners<br />

and close friends, giving you the<br />

chance to learn more about your<br />

style of relating to those who are<br />

closest to you. Glitches and delays<br />

at work continue. But parties,<br />

romance, love affairs, vacations,<br />

sports and playful times with children<br />

are sweet and rewarding!<br />

Capricorn (Dec. 22-Jan. 19)<br />

This month you’re conscientious,<br />

responsible and grown-up.<br />

You want to be efficient and effective<br />

Don’t worry; you haven’t<br />

lost your humour or your sense of<br />

joie de vivre. You want to get better<br />

organized! No pain, no gain. If<br />

you don’t put your shoulder to the<br />

wheel, life is a bowl of cherry pits.<br />

Big changes due to renovations,<br />

visiting guests and redecorating<br />

projects at home might create tension<br />

with family members. Be patient.<br />

You can improve where you<br />

live. Note: ex-lovers are back on<br />

the scene. Yikes!<br />

Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18)<br />

It’s fun city for you this month.<br />

Love affairs, flirtations, vacations,<br />

parties, sports, playful activities<br />

with children, the theatre, and the<br />

arts are wonderful sources of pleasure<br />

and excitement. Make time<br />

for fun! We all know life goes in<br />

cycles. Sometimes work is a priority;<br />

sometimes you have to play.<br />

This month is all about pleasure<br />

and romance! You can discover<br />

ways to express your own creativity.<br />

Just let it all hang out! Dance<br />

like no one is watching. It’s an excellent<br />

time for to sell, act, teach,<br />

write, edit and communicate to<br />

others. (It’s also a great time for<br />

drivers — taxis and buses.) Don’t<br />

confuse your career with your life.<br />

If you always plow a straight furrow<br />

— you’re in a rut.<br />

Pisces (Feb. 19-March 20)<br />

This month highlights home,<br />

family and domestic matters. In<br />

fact, if you can find some quiet time<br />

at home to be by yourself, you’ll<br />

love it. Memories of your childhood<br />

are back. (You need time to<br />

process some of this or simply savour<br />

it.) Discussions with parents<br />

are significant. It’s a strong month<br />

to earn money – which is a good<br />

thing because you’re spending it!<br />

You can’t avoid mixed up communications<br />

and transportation<br />

delays and. Allow extra time for<br />

these glitches. Demonstrate grace<br />

under pressure. After all, what<br />

sign has more grace and style than<br />

you? You’re the master of illusion<br />

because you know life is smoke<br />

and mirrors. p<br />

Mehfil May/June 2009 75


Movie reviews<br />

By Ron Ahluwalia<br />

Dev D.<br />

Devdas is a legendary Indian story.<br />

The over-the-top proclamations<br />

of love and the romantic nature<br />

of a bygone era are ideally suited<br />

to a mainstream Bollywood film<br />

(remember Bhansali’s recent<br />

rendition). But what would happen<br />

if Devdas was transplanted<br />

out of early 1900s Calcutta<br />

to early 2000s Chandigarh?<br />

Anurag Kashyap (Black Friday,<br />

No Smoking), the mainstream<br />

Bollywood director most likely to<br />

push the envelope, delivers an<br />

interesting movie that proves the<br />

timelessness of Sarat Chandra<br />

Chattopadhyay’s tragic story.<br />

Abhay Deol is Dev, the spoiledbrat<br />

son of a rich Punjabi businessman,<br />

who is sent to boarding<br />

school in London as a result of his<br />

bad behaviour. His childhood love<br />

with Parminder or Paro (Mahi Gill)<br />

evolves from playing by the river<br />

to long-distance phone sex. After<br />

returning to India, Dev believes<br />

rumours that Paro is promiscuous.<br />

Citing his sexual double standard,<br />

Paro breaks up with Dev and marries<br />

Bhuvan, which plunges Dev<br />

into a lifetime of alcoholism. Lené<br />

(Kalki Koechlin) is a high school<br />

girl who is caught in a sex tape<br />

scandal, making her and her family<br />

social pariahs. She is recruited to<br />

become a call-girl who uses the<br />

name Chanda while she continues<br />

going to school. When Dev enters<br />

her life, a tumultuous relationship<br />

begins. Dev and Paro are temporarily<br />

united, but what happens<br />

next?<br />

Groundbreaking is the only<br />

word to describe Dev D. Kashyap<br />

give the story edge, flair and<br />

immense realism. The dialogue is<br />

profoundly authentic, not contrived<br />

like in most Bolly-flicks. To name<br />

just a few examples of Dev D.’s<br />

realism: Dev has a taste for vodka,<br />

cocaine and pot, as opposed to<br />

being addicted to whisky. Paro<br />

is a vivacious Punjaban with a<br />

vocabulary to match. As a call girl,<br />

Chanda engages in fringe sexual<br />

behaviour as opposed to showing<br />

off her kathak skills. This is how<br />

it would be today and Kashyap<br />

has the courage to call a spade a<br />

spade. The music (Amit Trivedi)<br />

is probably the best soundtrack<br />

of 2009, both for the merits of the<br />

music and for what it lends to the<br />

flim.<br />

The real stars of Dev D. are the<br />

ladies. Mahi Gill is everything a<br />

modern Paro would be and has the<br />

potential to go far. Kalki Koechlin<br />

is a Franco-Indian to watch. Her<br />

versatility is impressive for a first<br />

performance. Abhay Deol does<br />

well, but one senses a bit of Oye<br />

Lucky! Lucky Oye! hangover (pun<br />

intended).<br />

Dev D. is without a doubt a<br />

must-see. Bollywood may well<br />

be catching up to the 21 st century<br />

after all.<br />

Firaaq<br />

We were already aware that Nandita<br />

Das is an amazing actress. Now<br />

she impresses with her flair for<br />

working behind the camera. Firaaq,<br />

her first directorial venture, is a<br />

stinging portrayal of the intricacies<br />

of Indian society.<br />

Firaaq, which premiered at the<br />

prestigious Toronto International<br />

Film Festival, looks at the lives<br />

of eight people living in Gujarat<br />

one month following the Hindu-<br />

Muslim violence of 2002. Aarti<br />

(Deepti Naval) is the oppressed<br />

wife of Sanjay (Paresh Rawal) and<br />

is haunted by her lack of compassion<br />

for a Muslim victim of the<br />

riots. She attempts to find solace<br />

in caring for an orphaned Muslim<br />

boy, Mohsin (Mohammad Samad),<br />

who wanders the streets. Mohsin<br />

ends up running away from her<br />

home and eventually into the<br />

custody of Hanif (Nowaz). Hanif<br />

seeks revenge against a Hindu he<br />

assumes is responsible for the<br />

destruction of his home. Mureena<br />

(Suhana Goswami), Hanif’s wife,<br />

is suspicious of her best friend’s<br />

(Amruta Subhash) role in the vandalism.<br />

During the riots, Hanif and<br />

Mureena hid in the home of Sameer<br />

Sheikh and Anuradha Desai (Sanjay<br />

Suri and Tisca Chopra), a married<br />

couple struggling to cope with their<br />

religious differences in light of the<br />

social upheaval. Finally. Anuradha<br />

is a music disciple of Khan Sahib<br />

(Naseeruddin Shah), an idealist<br />

whose perception of Gujarati society<br />

and overall worldview is shattered<br />

by the events of 2002.<br />

With a cast like that, expectations<br />

for Firaaq are high. Deepti<br />

Naval rises to the occasion yet<br />

again. Her portrayal of Aarti is<br />

chilling. Paresh Rawal connects<br />

with the audience even though<br />

all of his dialogue is in Gujarati<br />

and his character is far from likable.<br />

After the acclaim of Rock On!,<br />

Suhana Goswami stands out as the<br />

paranoid and desperate Muneera.<br />

The lesser-known Amruta Subhash<br />

holds her own quite well. Tisca<br />

Chopra (last seen in Taare Zameen<br />

Par) delivers her usual convincing<br />

portrayal of a modern Indian<br />

woman. As the aging and idealistic<br />

artist Khan Sahib, Naseeruddin<br />

Shah adds nuances that elevate<br />

what could have been a stock character<br />

into a multi-dimensional and<br />

memorable personality.<br />

Among this amazing cast,<br />

Sanjay Suri and Mohammad<br />

Samad deliver the best performances<br />

of all. Suri, a seasoned<br />

performer who executes every role<br />

to perfection, once again portrays a<br />

character with flaws rarely shown in<br />

male Bollywood characters. Samad,<br />

though only a child, gives a<br />

restrained and realistic performance<br />

as a traumatized yet innocent soul.<br />

Director Nandita Das keeps the<br />

audience thoroughly engaged, and<br />

at times disturbed, too. The music<br />

by Rajat Dholakia and Piyush<br />

Kanojia gels with the events on<br />

screen very well.<br />

Firaaq is one of those great<br />

movies that exercises the mind,<br />

resulting in a fulfilling cinematic<br />

experience.<br />

Aa Dekhen Zara<br />

Bollywood rarely gets thrillers right<br />

without copying a Hollywood flick<br />

scene-for-scene. But Aa Dekhen<br />

Zara (ADZ) is a sign that times<br />

might be changing.<br />

Ray (Neil Nitin Mukesh) is a<br />

photographer who is broke (but<br />

still lives in a pretty swanky apartment).<br />

His grandfather passes<br />

away and leaves him a camera that<br />

takes pictures of the future. He<br />

uses the camera to take advantage<br />

of lotteries, horse races, and stock<br />

markets to become very rich. But<br />

increased affluence always leads<br />

to increased attention from all the<br />

wrong people. Along the way he<br />

starts dating his neighbour, Simi<br />

(Bipasha Basu), who is a DJ trying<br />

to make it big in Mumbai.<br />

The best thing about ADZ is<br />

that it is a simple thriller. It follows<br />

one storyline for the entire movie.<br />

Jehangir Surti manages to resist<br />

irrelevant comedy and extraneous<br />

love interests, although there are<br />

some scenes whose incorporation<br />

makes no sense (e.g. the last<br />

song). The music by Pritam<br />

and Gourov Dasgupta is nothing<br />

special<br />

The performances are<br />

unremarkable. Neil Nitin Mukesh<br />

demonstrated his acting talent in<br />

his stellar debut, Johnny Gaddar,<br />

but he misses the mark in ADZ. He<br />

can’t dance — and thus should<br />

not try — and looks awkward<br />

in most scenes. As a playback<br />

singer, he’s a credit to his lineage.<br />

Bipasha Basu is fine in an easy<br />

role. Rahul Dev returns with a<br />

performance that is better than his<br />

previous work but nothing special.<br />

Sophie Choudhary is wasted.<br />

This movie is fine if you want<br />

to pass the time on a rainy day.<br />

Not bad, but not great.<br />

76 Mehfil May/June 2009


Local Artist<br />

Jazz Mattu<br />

Pump up the Fusion<br />

What better venue for bhangra<br />

singer Jazz Mattu to introduce<br />

his new, nine-piece band,<br />

Bombay Sapphire, than at the RBC<br />

desiFEST Vancouver 2008?<br />

“It was our first major break and we received<br />

a great response from the crowd,”<br />

says Mattu. “At one point, we serenaded<br />

a couple in the front row with a romantic<br />

Bollywood track and the audience loved<br />

it.”<br />

In front of a throng of hundreds,<br />

Bombay Sapphire electrified the audience<br />

with its contemporary Indo-fusion<br />

music.<br />

Bombay Sapphire may be a new<br />

band, but Mattu himself is a veteran of<br />

the music scene. Before immigrating to<br />

Canada in 1995, Mattu recorded eight albums<br />

in the United Kingdom as a member<br />

of Anaamika, a band he formed in<br />

1987 along with his brothers and several<br />

friends.<br />

Anaamika’s fusion of modern pop and<br />

traditional bhangra sounds earned the<br />

band several British awards over the years.<br />

The first was the award for best upcoming<br />

bhangra band at the 1987 UK Asian<br />

Pop Awards. After making their mark at<br />

the awards show, Jazz and his band mates<br />

released their debut album, Anonymous,<br />

which included the hit single Pump Up<br />

The Bhangra. Before long, Jazz and the<br />

band were playing alongside bhangra<br />

stars such as Malkit Singh, Heera, Alaap,<br />

DCS, and Apna Sangeet.<br />

Recently, under the stage name Jazz-<br />

Anaamika, Mattu has been performing<br />

at private functions and at various South<br />

Asian venues. He’s also working with Canadian<br />

producer Kal M and UK producer<br />

Amit Mattu on a new album. Bombay<br />

Sapphire’s first CD, which Mattu plans to<br />

release later this year, will feature original<br />

tracks in several languages. “We will sing<br />

in Hindi, Punjabi and English, with some<br />

African and South American sounds.<br />

We hope to reach a wide, multicultural<br />

audience with this new CD. As a<br />

band we don’t want to be defined as just<br />

straight Punjabi or bhangra. We want<br />

to explore the musical realm and create<br />

a new sound,” says Mattu, who’s always<br />

been eager to push the music envelope.<br />

“I have sung in Punjabi with a Spanish<br />

singer and I’ve performed black soul and<br />

reggae music fused with bhangra.” p<br />

Mehfil May/June 2009 77


Reflections<br />

Mohammed and Safina Ali<br />

Safina Ali still has vivid memories of<br />

her childhood in Fiji. While she was<br />

growing up, she was often told the story<br />

of how she came into this world on May<br />

11, 1945. “I remember my mom telling<br />

me that my dad was working in the sugar<br />

cane the day I was born,” she says. “He<br />

told my mom if you have a girl, to put up<br />

a red flag and if you have a boy to put up<br />

a white flag because he would be able to<br />

see it from where he was working. Once<br />

I was born, my mom put up a red flag<br />

and she says Dad came home right away<br />

because he was too excited.”<br />

Safina would go on to raise four white<br />

flags of her own, representing her four<br />

sons with husband Mohammed Ali.<br />

This year marks the 40 th anniversary<br />

of the year the Alis and their three sons<br />

settled in Canada. The first to arrive on<br />

Canadian soil was Mohammed, who<br />

wanted to see what life in Canada was<br />

like before uprooting his family from the<br />

home they had always known in Fiji. “I<br />

wanted to get out and see what was going<br />

on in other parts of the world. America<br />

was very strict at that time so we chose<br />

Canada.”<br />

On February 5 , 1969, the then 28-year<br />

old Mohammed sailed into Vancouver on<br />

a typical winter day. “I came to Canada<br />

Mohammed and Safina Ali in their first home in Burnaby,<br />

B.C., which they purchased in 1971 for $23,000.<br />

on a boat with three other friends from<br />

Fiji. The first thing we all thought was<br />

that it was so cold,” he says. “When I first<br />

came here I thought most people were<br />

very nice. When I came here there was<br />

only one bridge. I remember the Fraser<br />

Bridge to get to Richmond. Everyone<br />

had to wait for it to open so we could<br />

cross.”<br />

Safina would arrive a few months later<br />

with sons Ashad, Fayaz and Sunny, all<br />

under the age of 10.<br />

“I was 24 years old when I came to<br />

Canada with my three children,” she<br />

recalls. “I was so excited. I was happy to<br />

come see my husband here but also sad<br />

because I was leaving my family there at<br />

the time.”<br />

Safina would get the chance to live<br />

close to her family again. She and her<br />

husband would help pave the way for<br />

both their extended families to join them<br />

in Canada.<br />

The Alis found their first home in<br />

Vancouver. “Our first home was on Main<br />

and seventeenth,” says Safina. “We rented<br />

the place. Everything was close by to us<br />

and we started learning where things<br />

were. When we came here we had nothing,<br />

so we had to buy every single thing.<br />

We started very small and we didn’t have<br />

By Anita Rai<br />

anything too expensive, just the necessities.”<br />

They would stay in the two-bedroom<br />

suite for two years, until they were able<br />

to afford more space for the family. “We<br />

bought a four-bedroom house in Burnaby<br />

for $23,000, and the payment was only<br />

$72 a month. Now you can’t even buy a<br />

car for that much!” says Mohammed.<br />

Mohammed spent 33 years as a maintenance<br />

worker for the University of<br />

British Columbia. Safina worked in a<br />

laundry, taking time off to add the last<br />

addition to the family, son Joey.<br />

The only thing that detracted from<br />

the excitement of starting a new life in<br />

Canada was the racism they faced upon<br />

arriving here. “A lot of white people<br />

were calling us names at the time,” says<br />

Mohammed.<br />

They say one of the most important<br />

things they gained from coming here was<br />

the freedom to see the rest of the world.<br />

“Once we established ourselves here,<br />

we were then able to travel to England,<br />

India and back to Fiji every few years. I<br />

felt like everything went so smoothly for<br />

us here,” says Safina.<br />

Mohammed and Safina live in<br />

Vancouver, where they have made their<br />

home since 1983. p<br />

78 Mehfil May/June 2009


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